BDSM not just about boiking

This is you not liking the answers/opinions given. This is you still looking for pity and sympathy. Want some strange? Have at it, it's your life, your family and your self worth, no one else's. I mean , I can't throw any of that away for you. The only answer/opinion you want is one that agrees with you. Sorry we've failed you. Best of luck and remember to look back when it's all said and done. Wanna talk other shit aside from this? I'm sure we can do that much.

I agree with Ya-Ya, you sound like you don't like that absolutely no one that has commented is in agreement with the prospect of you wanting to cheat. If your happiness is derived from cheating and possibly hurting someone else (even if it's the person that hurt you) or, at the very least, your family (and not saying your wife hasn't done things to hurt the family either, but we are talking about YOU and not whatever she's done/doing) then maybe you need to look at the real reasons why you want to do this. Cause, it's as I said before, this just sounds like you want to cheat in the hopes of hurting someone who hurt you. To reiterate: this is just what it sounds like, I'm not saying it is a fact, but it sounds like it. Like Ya-Ya also said, it's your life to do whatever you want with it. But remember, you are in control of you at the end of the day.

Maybe theirs a possibility of a open relationship if you talk with your partner lol though probably not on the table if cheating is on your mind