Always friendzoned please help

Why is it that everytime i meet a girl they just wanna be my friend? I get attached quick and i mostly make friends with girls. But when the conversations makes us closer or its intimate they end up telling me they just want to be my friend. . they call me their best friend or even their brother and im happy they see me this way. Sometimes it hurts but i usually get over it quick and just for once i would like it to be different. Anyone has any advice on what to do or how to deal with this?

you have to be their friend before their lover i know it's amazing to be in love with someone, but you can't rush it time is the biggest key to a relationship

Yeah. Thats sorta another problem. Like i usualy dont mind it if they just see me as friends but then they start talking to me about a guy they like and thats when everything usually falls apart lol

There could be a hundred of factors Sir Vido! however I will pin point some common cases. If you approach someone in a friendly manner and a buddy like way they will see you as a friend, after a while it becomes nearly impossible to see you as anything else but a friend, happens to both genders!. A good way to evade this is to beflirty, assertive and smart with your approach! Never talk about feelings with women you wish to create a relationship with, at least not until you two start dating, instead of saying "I like you-love" and getting a thanks as an answer just ask them out for coffee-lunch, do not... Ever... go for a first date on a movie theater, you want to go somewhere with a nice ambient, something nice to drink-eat and good music, somewhere to chat lots of!. Do not have expectations, meeting others means networking, means connections, means people that you'll get to know, if you expect someone to reciprocate you then you will get hurt, approach dating as you would approach any other challenge in life, sometimes you'll succeed sometimes you'll lose in a bitter manner, look up, laugh it off then hit the road again!. Almost lastly! the Friendzone it's a myth!, either things click, there's chemistry and a solid foundation for a relationship or there's nothing at all!. Cases where a woman falls in love with a friend aren't common enough to bet on them!. Lastly, seek your happiness for your own self! do what you love in life, seek your goals and work on your own self, people is attracted to happiness, being yourself and happy will make them eventually reach you!

I agree with Enki. I have been in the same boat as you for the longest time. Charles told me to just be friends with every girl you come across and eventually it will just happen.

Keep at least three fish in your barrel at all times. When you get a fish you like move the other fish to the friends fish barrel.