SnakeePoo

SnakeePoo @solid_snake95 I remember starting out on the site years ago, and I had very little to no mental illnesses (was lonely as hell and never had a social life in highschool due to family issues), but the more men & women I interacted with on here the more I became whacked out over years. So I would like to actually try to see more irl dates happen in my life despite having social anxiety issues. Any advice is appreciated. Only date irl I went on was with my ex I met online and one to Barnes & noble for coffee.

Veru @verucassault The best thing is connecting with the person over a common interest. If there's a legit spark between both people it shouldn't be hard to just ask the other one out.

SnakeePoo @solid_snake95 You....would think heh so let's say there's a common interest and you two enjoy a good Convo then they walk off for the rest of the day then two days then three days. Finally you get to see her four days later then she talks to you about something else then repeat over and over and over. As a guy I don't know shit about reading signals or none of that shit. I'm in the dark because I don't get hit on so I always assume everyone is being just friendly. Sooooo do I just risk the awkward situation of "I don't see you like that uhhh" or just move on to the the next woman talking to repeat said cycle?

SnakeePoo @solid_snake95 So unless the woman slides up and makes it painfully obvious she is into me I wouldn't know. Example, after the last con I went to my friends and I went to Canes to eat, and the cashier mentioned she loved my Gojo shirt. She was really cute and I assumed she was being friendly. Chatted with her for a bit about meeting the VA that same day then sat down with my food. My buddy tells me "dude that cashier was so into you" and I replied "nah she was into Gojo, not me"

Veru @verucassault Don't have to ask them out immediately. You can ease into it. Ask for their number first or discord if you know they are a nerd/gamer/weeb

Veru @verucassault Hey, you're cool. I want to get to know you more if you would like... <<< that puts it back on them to gage their interest

Veru @verucassault Never know if you don't ask and you miss all the shots you never take.

SnakeePoo @solid_snake95 True. All true.

SnakeePoo @solid_snake95 Tried it out connecting with this one woman named Vanessa talking about cooking. Wonderful personality and gorgeous 10/10 11 herbs and spices class recipe that is her temple. Told me where she worked and it happened to be where my brother works. Then my buddy comes up after telling me he thinks she's married because there's a ring on one of her fingers but he wasn't sure. So maybe?? Idk but hey gonna check it out visiting my brother soon.