Always friendzoned please help

And this is coming from me when I say that being in the friend zone sucks but if you're putting yourself in that friendzone and you're letting it happen without saying anything about how you feel then it's your own fault in a way. If you want to stay in the friend zone then that's your choice but do you want to leave the friend zone and do something else then that's also your choice but don't hold back while your feelings at once and expect people to pity you. Grow above that. Show that you have the result to overcome.

The best advice I could give you is to not expect anything. I think the problem honestly lies with you. You interact with girls who probably have no interest from the get go in dating and expect them to slowly come around. I don’t want to be unnecessarily rude but, maybe just stop expecting girls to like you for more than a friend. Eventually, someone will come around who will feel romantic feelings towards you. Just stop seeing every female you talk to as a potential partner and start seeing them as good lasting friends. Maybe some day, one will turn into something more than that. Good luck!

^-- Probably. The trick is finding out why a lot of girls only want to be your friend. And then work on that about yourself. Don't try to convince the girls you are totally worth dating. That's exactly what someone not worth dating would do. -_-

If you value them as a friend then I don't see the issue, that's my problem with people who complain about the friendzone - it feels to them as if being friends is not good enough for most people. Just be your best self and keep meeting new people, there'll be someone for you, heck even long time friends can change their opinion to something more romantic at the drop of the hat, you never know what happens. Just enjoy life; whatever happens, happens.

Ive been reading all your feed back, it has been a huge help reading all of your comments and advice.. and well i guess i was just upset the other day when i heard this from someone i was crushing on... i mean im over it, i always get over it. And im still really super good friends with all these girls.... it never bother me that they just wanna be friends. I still love them like family. I guess the problem is just me not knowing how to approch the situation or even when to aproach it. But yall are right... thanks you all. Although i didnt respond since i posted this topic , i was reading these coments to get me through this. Im usually easily missled and well im still trynna understand different types of friendships. Thank you all , althou i dont know any of you , you guys are the best.

friends first is always good. Also it can help to make intentions clear early if your really in love and want to pursue something eventually. Even if it’s a small thing, like breaking the touch barrier, or compliments, etc. but also watch if they react positive or negative to those things. You don’t want to be creepy or make anyone feel uncomfortable xxxxx also >< a lot of “in love” feelings that happen before your friends with someone is probably just infatuation I think >< not being in love, since you don’t know each other well. So it can help to realize that and use the friendship to get to know each other better and see if real feelings develop with the friendship as a foundation. Hope it helps :3

Wear a fedora bro, dat usually makes ya the ultimate "nice guy". But seriously now.... Just make sure ya don't get too attached to whoever ya talk to, least not too quickly. It's unhealthy for both of you. 1st because you get rejected, and 2nd believe it or not she also feels super bad for having to turn you down. Nobody enjoys making others sad (if they have at least a bit of humanity). In other words, you can try. But never expect some kind of dream best case scenario (I know it's difficult but still). We're all just people.... Girls also have their idea of somebody they want, and sadly....sometimes you're just not what they want (doesn't mean you're worthless tho so don't get depressed over it). Much like you yourself don't like every girl you see and have your preferences, so do them.