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otakueaterd
trust me I have had my fair share of past relationships and luckily I am single now hoping that the next person that walked into my life won't just be a ticking Time bomb ready to explode or just ready to wait for things to go their way while I work my ass off. But anyway enough of my life what kind of past relationships have you all had as I am always interested in hearing other stories so what made or break your relationships to where they are now or even you didn't have any past relationships as your relationship partner is still with you to this day?
cac
Jan 17, 19 at 4:15pm
Only 2. One was online long distance. The other started online but she moved in with me for almost 7 years before leaving me.
momoichi
i havent had alot of relationships (irl atleast) first bf was elementary school, he was nice and into naruto i moved away so thats how that ended middle school a guy asked me out and then denied he was dating me (as i was(am) a loser) then i got into a LDR with a guy who had a lying problem and other shady shit we've known eachother for going on 12 years so though we've broken up a bunch we always got back together iv never had first hand experience of a healthy relationship, just going off tv, and iv decided that what you need is a partner you can rely on, and in the end hes always been there when i needed him despite his flaws, hes never been a flake, and i cant appreciate that enough not to mention we've lived together for about a year and we were like two pieces of a puzzle, no conflicts there i dont know what the future holds, but after other failed relationships, i appreciate just having someone i can lean and rely on its not a fairytale romance but its working and im grateful for that
horrormanga21
My last relationship was long distance it ended on a good note and we are still really good close friends she was there for me at a time when no one else was loved me and cared for me when I was at my absolute worst she saved my life and stopped me from doing something stupid she helped me change and become a better person introduced me to new things due to my insecurities and inner demons and lack of physical affection ldr has I had to end it it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do as a person I'm still glad she is good friend of mine and is till in my life
yamadaed
Jan 17, 19 at 5:27pm
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whispywoods
Aw, Lamby seem like such a good gf material. It's kinda sad knowing about those relationships. I hope things work out for you now. ✌
hakutaku
I have little experience in relationships~My current LDR goes well, we get along online~But we aren't sure if we will get along in real life<he learned his lessons>, so we have an agreement that when we meet in real life for the first time, everything has to be restarted<just be friends and travel together in a strange country> to see if we will get along in real life.If we cannot get along in real life, then the LDR will be terminated, friendship will be established without regret.Travelling together is one of the best ways to test people actually get along.After debating with myself, my self-confidence was leveled up, I'm not worried that I would be a spinster lol. Both are attractive to some extent heh.I have taught him lots of facts about human beings.
gundamu
My last relationship ended up on a good note, well at least I thought it did. I had decided that I still had more mental and financial growth to attain before I started to pursue something serious like a long term relationship. So my ex and I agreed that would be for the best and we still remained fairly close friends. Though now she definitely is being quite shady and I'm not sure how to feel about it. About 3 months ago or so she had asked to borrow some cash since she was going through a bit of a hard time, was short on rent for the month and didn't want to get hit with a late fee. It was like $240 and she said she'd pay me back the coming week since she'd be getting paid. So of course I give her the money with no hesitation. Since I trusted her and felt she was responsible enough to not just take advantage of people like that. She then basically ghosted on me and has been ignoring me like I'm some sort of loan shark when I genuinely am worried about her well being since I literally haven't heard from her in months, I seriously could care less about the money. I mean I honestly didn't expect to be paid back in the first place, but I also sure as hell didn't expect to be treated as a loan shark and have to find out she isn't dead on the streets somewhere through asking mutual friends. :u I can say I've had my fill of relationships for now. That whole thing was so weird and I'm more just stunned at the fact that it happened rather than bitter about it. :v
siruboo
Jan 18, 19 at 12:34am
i think i was kinda in a relationship in highschool, it was more like friends because we didnt hug or kiss. but i saw her again later in life and she was smart and not a fuck up like me. good thing we didnt hook up.
codename4711
The vast majority of my relationships have been LDR, since there's not really anybody too interesting here. Plus, it kind of works better for me right now, if I'm honest. The first two girls I had dated were local to my town. The first was too popular for me at the time, but I was dumb and liked pretty girls. She dated me for a few months when a big event happened that caused me to move away for some time, then left when I wasn't being talked about any further. The second one was an equally unpopular friend that had been into me for a while. We were both kind of "scene" kids at the time (I regret my mid teens lol), so we got along on the basis that we both loved punk emo bands and black clothing. The relationship ended up toxic, partially because of her, but I fully blame myself for being abusive and manipulative at that age. I had no idea what I was doing, or how my actions could effect others. Since we broke up, I apologized to her years later and we met for dinner. Everything's cool now, so that's great. The third and fourth were users from this site (That I wont name out of respect). The first girl lied to me a bunch (Saying she lived in Florida, which I did at the time, and that she was from the U.S). It turned out she was Jamaican, and only on visit. I just let it go, because she was super beautiful, and I was still going through heartbreak/regret from the last relationship. To turn a long story short, we dated for nearly 3 years and I didn't realize that I had been continuously lied to/cheated on the whole time. I was deeply in love, so it was a massive heartbreak when things ended. I still haven't recovered, and I frankly don't know if I'll ever trust anybody again. Finally, short final relationship. Met a cute girl from Japan here, we were friends for a long time, then dated for a bit. Due to our busy schedules, we both decided we couldn't maintain our relationship. She's extremely cool, and I'm still happy to call her my friend :D (Sorry for the novel; I guess it felt good to get all of this off my chest xD)
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