Why do girls always friend zone nice guys

aah this thread is more like me. If I had a dime for every time a girl has called me "too nice" I'd be richer than Bill Gates

Friendzoned is just you not taking enough risks, or taking them too late. Girls, for the most part, don't like to wait around until you grow a set (using a generalized "you" there). I'm guilty of it, too, but take a chance and go for it when the time is right. You'll know when.

That's the thing, but if you do say you like them and you actually as so to speak "do grow a pair" is that a good thing? I dunno I've always thought being honest and growing a set with women was a bad thing. I've always been straight forward if I have an interest in a woman I'll say it right off the bat, I'm not afraid at all. With me I guess it's all down to bad luck?..maybe?

yes. either they have feeling for you also and you guys keep going forward, or they don't and you remain friends. Like I said, I'm guilty of it, too, but no risk, no reward.

I disagree with that. Subconciously, girls want douchebags, hence why a lot of them stay with them. A lot of these douchebags are "Alpha males" and, again, subconsciously that's what we're geared psychologically to go after.

"Girls want douche bags." And thus I do not go for "girls". I made that mistake for a little bit... No, I'd like to consider my fiancee to be a woman. Being male or female is easy, but being a man or woman is pretty damn hard for some. Besides, douches have a good likelihood of causing infections and those who want to use them, can keep them.

there* I need to get some popcorn, this is gonna be getting good soon.