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7年以上 ago • Random Chatter
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darkprinceofaudio
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KINGDOM
7年以上 ago • Anime News and Discussion
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kingaj
kingaj @kingaj commented on KINGDOM
Mar 09, 19 at 3:32am
It’s good it’s about the warring states period of China main character starts as a soldier gets moved from 100, 1000 to 5000 and keeps going till he’s reaches goal of being the best general
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momoichi
smart dolls started as an april fools i was actually on danny choos site when he jokingly announced them i wish hed update his website and would bring back figma.fm :s if i had the money id 100% buy some daughterfu's, but dollfie dream is so pricey https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v8vRxYowcZE
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horrormanga21
Votes So far 1 vote to Yakuza 1 vote to South park
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foo_fighter
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7年以上 ago • Video Games Discussion
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rinse
rinse @rinse started .
Mar 08, 19 at 7:01am
idk what's going on exactly but based on your username and the spam and the other suspicious users i think if there's anyone dangerously close to being "degenerate scum" it might might be you
Hello (^・ω・^ )
7年以上 ago • Introductions
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maxkarateboy
Welcome :)
Toxic fandoms
7年以上 ago • Random Chatter
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misaki_ayu
Mar 07, 19 at 4:02am
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Denial
7年以上 ago • Relationship Advice
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shadowduty7
Mar 06, 19 at 8:48pm
@festive I believe that's called being naively stubborn and immature. Such people cling to lies and whatever they can to cope/prevent change. Denial is a defense mechanism after all.....just not a rational one. I used to think I was helping people before out of selflessness in my teens....but in reality, I was doing it to feel needed and to replace my own self-esteem. The whole time I was certain my actions and talks when helping someone were strictly for their sake....but one day, I realized I was holding off harsh judgment and advice, instead choosing to pursue and selfishly try to nurture a deeper relationship with said people by being there for them and helping them, when in reality, I couldn't even do that....when I should have really been giving solid, realistic advice, fixing my own problems before trying to burden anyone else's, and not making everyone else's problems my responsibility. And in the back of my mind, I knew something wasn't right, but I couldn't figure out what, until I self-reflected on myself, my actions, and asked questions...cause altruism is often mistaken and misinterpreted by people as doing a kindness and expecting compensation in return...like a loan...but altruism isn't helping someone so you can justify to yourself that you're a good person, some charm used to help you get closer to a friend/lover, or a debt that should be repaid to you...I've learned true altruism/kindness is more about putting other's well-being and thoughts first when deciding to help them, being able to afford and commit to such sacrifices by having some goddamn self-respect... Anyways....sometimes people refuse to see the truth....other times, they simply just can't understand anymore or never knew to begin with, because all the lies, rejection, pressure, and lack of self-esteem somewhere along the line began to amalgamate, until they start living and clinging to the lie as a way of living for them to cope....without them even realizing they're living the lie anymore....which can be very dangerous....especially if this is adopted with other obstacles in life and made into a habit....cause this could easily lead to narcissistic behavior and gas lighting others to what you'd now perceive as protecting yourself....I've known people who are in such denial and insecurity, that they'll blame everyone else for their own problems, try and divert the conversation the INSTANT they realize they're wrong, use bad past experiences from the loooonnnng distant past as an excuse to get out of being productive or taking responsibility in messing up on something (example: imagine if a friend paid the rest of your bill out of "kindness" at a Starbucks, and then they demand you pay for their food EVERYTIME you're with them when they're getting food and will keep using that ONE kindness as an excuse 5 years later when they're still bothering and getting mad at you, saying that you should pay), always plays the victim, antagonizes everyone who doesn't agree with them, and rubs in how wrong they think you are, laughing or scoffing mockingly with such certainty of their belief that holds little rationality...its a pretty sad sight. It's like talking to a person living in some alternate reality. Denial is just holding off the inevitable.
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