Thanks for the advice, I'l try to keep this in mind. I have gone to quite a few cons, and a small number of meetups, but again, not much luck with meeting new people. If the key word is "active", then I guess that's something I could work on. I guess I could also try to be more active on this forum, as well, considering that this would be a potential point of meeting people, if at the very least to make new friends.

No not at this time most likely will stay til this site has no users or maybe we might hit a fresh start later this year and get some much needed activity.

@buji: that example is a tad flawed in the fact that food is is necessity. Romance is not. I can choose not to have a GF if I can't find someone I will enjoy my time with; you can't do that with food. But your point about the finding anime otaku on a site like this is true enough. But that doesn't necessarily mean that they are gamers either.

My real name isnt luthar, just a username, i really dont like giving out my real name til i get to know the person, as some people can be wierd(like obsessive stalker) and I want to upload a pic of myself but i have no computer cam, so if any of you ever are interested in talking to me, I can send you a pic of my self through my phone on a website or something, multiple if you want ;3. I am mainly looking for someone who have the same interests as me, and someone i can rely on, thats what i mainly look for in a girlfriend. Really hard to find that where i go to school :/. So yea, thats about it.

Keep strong and keep looking. If you give up, your future soulmates will never get to meet you. I have friends; just not friends I can be myself around. I'm not really alone, but it's lonely at the same time. So I know how you feel in a different way.

nii_chan112-well that kind of goes back a bit to the topic lol there are very few/very few active female members so unless this topic only has 2 or 3 people on it then of course its going to "be dominated" by males lol.

Hello so introducing ... Hmm... What to say . Well i am currently 16 i will be 17 in July . I love anime and manga , and alot of the japanese culture. Ive seen about 52 animes. umm .. well want to know more check out my profile please :)