What I'm looking for

I'm really looking for a girl that likes to play video games, not just one game (noobs) but a whole slew of different ones, I also like to watch anime a lot, but gaming is my passion and I need a girl who is a part of that, or I can't be passionate about her.

Seems like being an otaku things like life goals, aspirations, and hardworking don't matter unless of course your a realistic otaku.

That's all pretty true. Having similar hobbies can be a conversation starter, but that's not something you can really build a relationship on solely

I love girls, And guys, who feel like the only thing they need to have in common with a person is video games and anime. I'm not even trolling here. You want a girl that likes games and anime, but fuck all else. Yudo (can't call him can't anymore :( ) took the words from my fingers. A person's personality, ambitions, dreams are more important than video games and anime, but hey, what do I know. Maybe my standards are to high for here since I've been looking for someone with more than the formentioned. Sorry girls.

Admittedly, there are times when I geniunely find attractive women immediately become unattractive to me when I discover that they lack any real common interests with me. Looks, of course, is first when come to initial attraction, but similar hobbies and a great personality can help a relationship endure the test of time.

How about I let you in on a little secret here... I can't speak for every girl out there. But me personally, and I can vouch for my roommates who are sitting next to me. But guys who say things like: "I'm looking for a girl who is into this, this, and this. Is wanting to do this. Is going for this position. Wants to have kids. etc." Is crazy overload and a major turn off! I'd rather someone say "I'd like a girl who'll cosplay with me" over someone who states all the goals and aspirations they want in a girl. Because the fact of the matter is, is that when you make a list like that, it's more of a "I want this exact thing" instead of "I want someone I can share things with." And being in a relationship, is just that. Sharing your life with someone.