dark souls one doesnt really have much of a story except kill the king and take his place or what ever....the rest is just lore and back stories for characters (or atleast thats what i get from it) they dont really tell you much in dark souls one

I don't see a problem using the word with people who you know like "zup niggas" or things like that, but if you say it to a random person he is going to get mad (more if is a dark skin person) and maybe is going to try to punch you

So I guess I'm having a bit of a hard time understanding the point of your post. Are you not happy with this male friend of yours because you feel he changed himself and his interests to be with a girl you feel he didn't have very much in common with before? I can't say I've specifically run into a similar situation. I go into every potential new relationship with a girl with them knowing full well I'm a gamer. If they can't get behind that or at least accept it, then I don't want them as a significant other. I can probably say for sure a lot of girls have probably been turned off by the fact I am a gamer, but I won't compromise my interests or ideals for the sake of a relationship. I'd rather stay single.