If you really want to make a multiple partnered relationship (harem) work you must discuss it with all partners is the best advice i can give. Perhaps one at a time and then all together usually works best to set rules and establish boundaries, but the thing is you don't chose one over the other. You respect them both and give them each the same love and affection equally. Sometimes this can be hard but there are ways to keep track of it all. These relationships are often called polyamorous or something to that effect. It can work with great success and can be awesome to be in. For me, I am in a triad, my SO and her BF. We all know each other and hang out together. He is an awesome guy too. We have many things in-common and get along well. We do hang out together and some of our friends and family know him. We treat it as an equal partnership meaning I am not over him and he is not over me. We both equal to her and each other. So we have a true reverse harem here and its good. We've been together all of us for over a year and it works. So yeah any questions? feel free to ask.

But I think Neet's right; without the OP the whole thread becomes obsolete, so the whole thread should just disappear. It would be much simpler.

Not since school, I think my last was about 10 years ago. (damn, can't believe it been that long...) I had a lot of pent up aggression back then, and received my share of grief from people that lead me into fights. After school I made a promise to myself to try and avoid getting into pointless fights. I mellowed out and became a much calmer person as a result.

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Ah, I had totally forgotten about that. Kinda awesome the Japanese dudes accepted the challenge. :)

I do some very basic yoga as part of my Wii Fit U routine most days. It provides a nice change of pace to the strength training and cardio that's a part of it. I've become a bit more flexible, but I'm definitely still not as flexible as when I was a kid. XD

Nice art! https://media.giphy.com/media/M2Bt0FhiW96NO/giphy.gif