I despise the "woe is me, I'm so nice, why aren't girls flocking to me" attitude some guys have. Sadly for them, nice guys really aren't that special. You're not going to get a girl by simply being boringly polite and uninteresting. I mean, I'm as fucking nice as a bunny rabbit laying on a fluffy pillow, but that doesn't entitle me to getting a girlfriend/getting laid. You have to have other things going for you. Interests, desires, goals, etc. Also, I think it's much better to speak your mind rather than just being super agreeable about everything. I've seen so many guys just tell girls what they wanna hear, like a complete and utter tool. Not having a backbone and being needy are also major turnoffs I think. My thoughts on the issue anyway.

Has anybody else ever wanted to delete an entire conversation for one reason or another (whether you don't like the clutter of all of those messages in your messages or you had a falling out with someone and you don't want their messages lingering around) Currently you have to delete each message manually (as far as I know) and cannot simply delete an entire conversation (if there is a way to do this please by all means let me know) So if there is not a way to simply delete an entire conversation I would suggest adding a way to do that.

Welcome to MO o/ You got tons of people to bite here

I've never really been the jealous type. I guess that makes me weird. But I feel as if, if you can not trust someone then you can't really be with them. I can think of plenty of situations where most people would get jealous where I haven't, it's not because I don't care, but more that I am fully aware of the level of trust I have. At the end of the day it saves a lot of arguments if you just trust the person you're with, rather than doubting their every move.

ceresbane, the harem thing for women is different. The sexual part of it all is an after thought. If you have watched any reverse harem animes, you will see that the focus is on the female character and all the males are vying for her love. It's more of a competition for the males. Ultimately the girl fantasy in reverse harems is it's as if all the people she could possibly be interested in are some how interested in her instead. It's as if she is the only woman in the world and as such, they treat her like a queen. Suckin' dem dicks is more likely going to be found in the harem world, not the reverse harem world. In short, basically, women just want to be treated like they are the only woman in the world. Accept this and the world of relationships is your oyster.