Confessions

Kameiya you got to know that the anxiety a guy experiences when putting himself out there for a girl is tremendous. Plus some guys are really oblivious to girls liking them. So the solution to that is not the girl asking guy, but for the girl to iniate conversation. If the convo goes well the guy will give you their number and thats that. Note that this only works on guys who like you. So it is a trying process.

Im oblivious as well so i would prefer a girl tells me she likes me...rather than have me guess, cuz my guess will be that she doesnt. To me girls are very confusing and like to beat around the bush and often times i find myself trying to think on their level but its almost impossible to understand what girls are thinking sometimes XD

The women could be like me. They don't want to scare the guy by letting their feelings show. If a girl likes a guy she wouldn't want to risk that cuz it hurts a lot when the confession happens and the boy runs off or treats you coldly after that. It's less painful to stay quiet and let the guy ask. If he goes after another girl at least she can still talk to him normally.