Confessions

Try telling that to the men who ran away or turned cold towards me after I asked them out. Clearly it was a one street of them running the opposite direction.

Maybe thats just them? Idk how you can be scared of a girl asking you out. that means you are doing something right at least lol

Kam, At some point, maybe its not the guys that are the issue. IF (and that's a big if) all guys run from you when you ask them out, maybe there's a common denominator. I highly doubt it's your looks, it may not even be your personality, but it could be the type you're going after. I/we know absolutely nothing of why things happened how they did (Or if...People do love to exaggerate online, just saying. ) and really can't give a reason as to why they did. However, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it. From my perspective, relationships seem to hapoen when you're just being you and not going out of your way to look. What do I know? I mean, I've literaly had three relationships in my adult life (That includes my wife.).

I have a friend that I had a crush on and never told her, because everyone else that did so she stopped communicating with completely, even her friends. She did it because she has really bad social anxiety.