Why are you single?

21 relationships.. since 2017.. all ended with them leaving me.. I put all my heart into loving those I love and sometimes I think that's what pushes girls away..

Because I am still waiting for a guy who migrated and has not come back after 7 years. I know he is not really interested in me but I still come back to him. Like I just want him know me and to give me a chance.

Hm? Maybe I'm ugly? or maybe I haven't actually tried? But, if there was a genuine reason it'd probably be my dad, he would hate every man I would try to bring home lol

Two main reasons one I don't trust easily due to getting taken advantage of and hurt in the past and two cause I haven't found anyone interested in me in years sadly

I found that over the years, i'm much more happier being single. I've tried dating a few times only to realize that none of them lasted long. The longest relationship i had was 3 months and i'm still friends with this person. My mindset at the time originally was too heavily focused that i wanted a relationship due to loneliness that i was experiencing back then as do lots of people who want to be in a relationship i guess right? But the reality was that i wasn't ready for any of that. I spent so much time and energy on something that made me less productive and i wasn't happy. I was staying up late a lot, i was barely enjoying my hobbies anymore as i used to. It's not to say that i wouldn't mind getting into a meaningful relationship at some point if something serious did indeed happen, but it's more like i prefer focusing on myself. Less stress/time and energy consumed on my part. I can work on my own happiness, improve myself and let the future turn its course on its own. It will happen when i least expect it or it that's my belief on that~

@marin87 A fellow Virginian who also loves Black Clover? Tell me you're a Gordon fan in the Richmond 804 area code and consider yourself single no more, haha! https://i.redd.it/1ju6ffjw66471.jpg