Romanticizing mental issues it's not "cute", it's Dangerous

Hello folks, here again, hoping this one doesn't becomes a clusterfuck of idiocy. Lately I've been observing a trend among young males and young females regarding mental issues, there's plenty of specific group's I would like to talk about but the three most prominent ones are, toxic people, 'yanderes' and depressive people. These past years the trend has been to look into anime for people who seemingly are perfect while being mentally broken, characters such as Yuno, or anyone from school days or Rena from Higurashi, girls who are seen as attractive by their mild side and oddly "interesting" by their dangerous one... Let me tell you one thing, the day you find what you're wishing for, you'll regret it beyond the point of repair. Mental issues aren't meant to be romanticized, they are meant to be classified, known and treated to help people live seemingly normal lives, I've seen and read guys thinking their dating game will be easy because they only aim for depressive women, guess what happens? The guys aren't able to handle what true depression feels like, they fall in the pit, then become suicidal themselves, further damaging the woman they dated. This doesn't means that you shouldn't date someone with mental issues, it means that you shouldn't put them on a pedestal as if they were perfection and the best you can aspire to. Toxic behavior translates as abuse, which is pretty common on this site, verbal abuse, suicide threats, compulsive cheating, stalking, blackmailing... The list goes on and on, yet people seem to take it lightly as if it was part of what they are supposed to expect on the dating scene, it's not. It's not cute to have a girl going crazy over you and wanting to check every single second of your life, it's not amazing to have a man who will throw a tantrum and yell he's gonna pull the rope on his neck just because you talked to a Chad. People with psychological problems need to be treated carefully, because odds are you won't understand their pain, at the very least, don't make it worse with your delusions.

Mandatory message asking Seraphim to please fk off and compile his 500 messages spam on a single one, pretty please, thanks

I mean... You don't have to like what I post Seraphim, all I'm doing is giving some advice to youngsters from things I learnt the hard way, so that they don't do the same mistakes. You're trying a bit too hard to get attention my man, I can't say I can sympathize with your plea