If I'm dating someone who is cheating on me am i going too far if i do this to her

If she cheats on me while we're dating & if she's living with me i would say this to her face grab your shit & move in with your lover we're through if she says she's not leaving i would tell her oh yes you are then I'll grabbed her stuff and throw it out or throw it out in the streets and take back all the gifts i gave her and tell her or ask her to leave go move in with your lover. This question i like to mainly asking the guys but however female members of maiotaku you may chip in if you want this question is mainly asking the guys who had to deal with women & girls who cheated on him and don't worry I'll keep my receipts as prove just in case if she sues me or wants to see me in court all because of those gifts i gave her I'm taking back &/or destroy them if i choose to go that far. So I'm asking if I'm going too far & if I'm going too far to get rid of her & yes she's saying she's not leaving when i told her off like that and no i don't take cheating lightly once she cheats we're through and if she's living with me i would kick her ass out of my life forever how do you like me now lol :). Anyway i leave it here for now or at least for now thanks for answering this and thanks for reading and & so you all know this I'm only asking ahead of time if she's cheated on me while we're dating but however if we're married that's different matter all together if you want me to reply to you of how do i handle it if she's my cheating wife feel free to ask :).

Chill the fuck out. My first bf in existence cheated on me and I simply broke up. Stop wasting emotions on it. If she doesn't want to leave only the law can sort it out for you (you gave no details on who pays the rent etc). And gifts are gifts. They are hers now not yours. Get over it. Taking them back would be theft. I can honestly understand the way you lash out if it happened just recently. But calm down and make no further mistakes. Learn from it.

I would probably act a little calmer. First of all, I wouldn't attempt to reclaim the gifts as you have already given them to her and now have no ownership over them. I would consider this to be theft. Secondly, I would confront her but not as you have stated above, by what you have said, I would assume that it shows you still care about her despite her cheating. Just enquire calmly and wait for her to admit to it. Next, I wouldn't suggest throwing her belongings to the street. Overall, act indifferent and attempt to remove her promptly but in a calm manner.

@xynomi i am calm I'm talking about in general I'm only asking ahead of time when & if i do put myself out there dating again just in case if you didn't see that part @(笑)anigamer99(笑) OK but what if she refuses to leave after i both found out and saw her cheating on me and she refuses to leave my place if i do tell her calmly to leave and she refuses to leave and plus I'm only asking ahead of time when & if i do put myself out there dating again just in case if you didn't see that part :). & like i said i don't take cheating lightly i would dumped her ass and she'll never get a another chance with me no exceptions :).

Use the legal system to remove her as suggested by Xynomi. Also, why ask hypothetical questions like this. It only demonstrates your lack of self-confidence.

@(笑)anigamer99(笑)So I'll be more prepared ahead of time and so I'll more prepared just in case when & if i have to deal with that again and yes I've been cheated on before when i was the one who is loyal

I don't think it's something that should be prepared for. Just deal with it when it happens and at that time if you need help, ask this question and I'm sure there are plenty of people who will be willing to assist you.

(笑)anigamer99(笑)OK thanks I like to add you if you don't mind & if you want to be friends on here anyway thanks for your understanding or at least understand most part :).