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keisanki_no_otaku
Not to mention that using a weapon increases the chances that the media jump on the case (not on your side). Even if the legal implications aren't that much different, it'll be a lot harder getting people on your side. I've seen some videos where the media tried to portray the bullies as victims simply because their victim used a weapon against them. Sad thing is, the media did a good job with it. I haven't seen any where the media jumped on board a case about bullies being beaten up without weapons or where the media defended the bully's victim. It's also a lot easier to avoid a court case without a weapon, as just having a weapon on school property is a crime.
wiglaf
Aug 10, 12 at 12:06pm
Ok. I think maybe Kyetge should watch LESS springer and maury and listen to less of this tyga person lol. The simple fact is that you either have to fight back or take it. I've never been a fan of hurting people either, but i've always defended myself. You can't just let people do harm to you. If you can avoid a violent encounter then do so however you can, but if you can't avoid it then FIGHT BACK. It's just one of those bitter pills that we have to swallow. You have to stand up for yourself and make hurting you more difficult. If it's words then just ignore them. If it gets physical then fight back with all that you have. Make them regret trying to harm you and they will be unlikely to try it again. Once they bring violence to you then it becomes their own stupid fault if you hurt them, not yours.
ridingcatbus
I was bullied until 6th grade. They one day when they caught me I just went bezerk. I don't remember what happend too well but a friend said I bloodied three of them. I wasn't bothered much after that. It's too bad but it is pretty much as wiglaf put it. His advice is sound.
nightnsky
thx guys :) now i am more confident i can get rid of them
j_oxford
Aug 10, 12 at 11:27pm
Kind of late to the conversation. If they talk to you, ignore them and move on. If they want to fight you, keep your temper down and remain calm. If you lose control you will make mistakes. Being nervous is fine, however if it is verbal bullying. Just say something witty to them and laugh it off. The more you seem bothered the more they will do it. Most bullies have reasons to be harsh. Some kids are just raised like that. Catch one alone and talk to them, calmly, and try to find out why they are so harsh towards you.
zaft123
Aug 11, 12 at 12:06am
Try not engage them, just ignore them and keep walking. In case of any physical activity, call the police.
k3nsh1n4life
OR YOU CALL ME. I'll be stationed in San Diego in March of next year ready to kick some ass :D
wallace614
Haha I agreed with wigfal And K3nsh1n I don't think you can kick 15 year old ass without getting arrested
kyetge
Aug 11, 12 at 10:29am
GO SUE THE SCHOOL or get someone to do it for you! ...has that idea been taken yet?
ridingcatbus
When I was bullied I got zero help from school or my folks. My Dad said I would have to learn to work it out myself. After my bezerk episode he punished me for fighting. Those in authority in my life gave me no good options. Sue the school sounds like something worth a try.
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