Definitely more inclined to pursue and maintain a coindependent structure here. I need my space, I need my autonomy, and I do not want to share everything with someone. Inevitably I'll get bored of them and then look like the bitch to all of our supposed mutual "friends". But fuck them, and fuck what they think for letting their emotional ties get in the way of the reality that my partner wasn't good enough for me. I am not going to settle. Neediness and clinginess are surefire ways to push me to abandon ship, and the ships I've abandoned so far have all been codependent structures.
Neediness and clinginess are surefire ways to push me to abandon ship, and the ships I've abandoned so far have all been codependent structures.