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Have you ever been friendzoned?

dragonflykite
I was wondering if it ever happened to anyone and if they would like to share what happened?I used to know a girl in Thailand and we were really hitting it off but when I didn't want to move there she kinda just friend zoned me.I don't really know what I was expecting outta a long distance relationship but I guess it was more my fault for thinking she might eventually move to the U.S. rather than me moving there.Of course most long distance relationships are destined to fail when one partner decides they don't want to move to the others location...Maybe next time I'll learn
cielle
BY using the term "friendzone," you're already a red flag to women. and you're not even using it ironically smh
vampire_neko
Technically "friendzoned" is any girl that doesn't want to fuck/relationship you but is still willing to be friends. It's not really a bad thing. Sure, it would be nice if all girls had the same sex drive as guys (though girls with high sex drives tend to be labeled as "sluts" which is stupid, but means girls feel pressured to hide their sexuality and act "picky" like most girls.) Unfortunately we aren't the star of a harem anime with every girl throwing themselves at us.
neet_one
Can't say I've gotten it much but I've given it a few times. Don't much bother me though, Better to be friends than nothing.
yunoxyukki
yeah i've been friend zoned a couple times, its whatever not like being friends is a bad thing
veray_dere
Nah, I'm the one who does the friendzoning! >:D ...JK XD
darkschneider
When I was younger it happened a few times. FZ is mostly a self made prison but people can banish partners (men and women) to it sometimes. @neko - If she is not into you and just wants to be friends that's just wanting to be friends. If you continue to chase when there is no option of that outcome by her words that is putting yourself in the FZ if you do not want to reciprocate and be only platonic. Some anime characters do this and say 'I am just happy being close to them'. Now if she is openly leading you on for favors implying she will upgrade your status in the future or physically teases you (seduction) that is her putting you in the FZ if she gets cold again after getting said favor. This is also called being their bitch if your getting laid it is called pussy whipped lol. Boys if you want to avoid the FZ when meeting girls remember this meme/rule to live by. http://i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/749/894/a76.jpg Even soul drained the king of Rohan was still one of the best men in all of Middle Earth.
infernalmonsoon
I never really liked the term friendzone, but I guess it is the only name I can think of to give these situations. Everybody has been there even if it's at least once - I believe there are two types of this situation though; one where you approach the girl as a friend looking for friendship but you're really looking for a relationship with them, that's a self-created barrier whether or not its intentional so that one is your fault. Then you have the one where the girl just simply isn't into you, even though you made it clear you're interested in them but they're more than happy to be friends, this will inevitably happen at some point and probably already has. I wouldn't think bad about it, just being friends is fine and dandy if you ask me. Personally I just stay friends with them and move on and find someone else.
verflucht
Sep 14, 15 at 7:57am
It's not that uncommon to be friendzoned, but people take word 'friendzone' out of proportion, it just means you've been rejected and are now friends, it isn't as sleazy as everyone makes it out to be, it literally is a zone where friends are put.
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