Nice guys finish last

The Killers *-*

Okay, I'm going to be real with you, Girku. I used to be the nice guy that others, not just girls, liked to push around. So, I know where you're coming from. The first two girls I ever dated back in high school liked me, but after a while they both cheated on me as if I didn't exist. Sob story aside, I learned that girls who would ditch a legit nice guy are just bitches that aren't worth your time. Also, I must disagree with the saying that "nice guys finish last". You see, many girls don't like guys who are wimps. You need to have a backbone and stand up for yourself from time to time. Don't let yourself get pushed around. Why do you think a lot of girls like the "bad boy"? Because they're strong and won't take shit from anyone. I'm not saying you should be an asshole to people. I'm saying you should remain nice, but don't be afraid to be more confident and a little aggressive when you have to.

K. this is easy one. change your god damn tone and style, your picture alone screws "Im a fedora/neckbeard bro" and that radiates off your personality, next thing yiou know you're calling girls "My lady" and the second they post something on fb about being upset with their bfs you write a paragraph long post telling them how you'll treat them like the goddesses they are and they'll never be upset. lets clear some things. 1) Being nice, DOES NOT GURANTEE WOMEN WILL LIKE YOU, OR WANT TO DATE YOU clearly you become friends with but nothing more, so that means (and seeing from your crappy sex jokes ) you are definitely thirsty, trust me dude, women can smell it off you when you want sex and it turns them away the second they smell it, they want you to make them feel like human beings, not sex toys, and you may get upset and say "I TREAT EVERY WOMEN WITH RESPECT" that may be how you see it, but they see it a completely different way buddy, Step 2, STOP CRYING IN YOUR POOL OF SELF PITY Confidence is key, you've never gotten past the friend stage? all 7 relationships were bad? yeah you're the common denominator. you need to learn to seal the deal, you need to learn to be dominate and take charge of your relationships, waiting to be friends than waiting to see what happens is the WORSE way to go. its sohard for a women to have friends who are guys and dont want to bang them 24/7 that once they get those relationships THEY DONT WANT TO LOSE THEM 3. Work on yourself, grow in life, don't just be a nice guy, be the good guy, be the guy who helps those in need that help others, dont be the shoulder to cry on, be the stern hug that says "hey something bad happened, lets learn from it" get mad when they make the same mistakes or when they dont take your advice, dont be their for them every second they need you, make sure they are there for you when you need to talk, and I dont mean just texting or IM's if you say "hey I need to talk to someone, wanna get a coffee?" and they always so "sorry im busy" find someone new, but during that time, develop NEW skills, take new experiences and expand your life, if you find a girl who likes you the way you are now, guranteed she will be bored of you from what i've been reading

Ugh, guys that say "you need to be an Alpha" and girls that say "where have all the good guys gone"? They're a match made in dysfunctional insecure heaven. If I hear either one of them talk about that junk I just avoid them entirely. I won't edit myself for a girl's satisfaction and I won't be a "project to fix" so that some girl could feel completed. I've known these types way too much in my life, even when I was little, and I won't tolerate it now.