When someone ignore your message and never replies back

Funny thing I usually really wait for an answer xD So you can tease with that xD Not cool tho :p But friends do replay back of course :3

I wonder if people who don't respond just don't know how to deny the approaching person delicately. There isn't necessarily anything wrong with that, because it's hard to reject someone with finesse, and on other dating sites I've straight seen other people default to saying "not interested" and leave it at that because it's such a tough matter. No one wants to be rejected, you know? And it equally sucks having to be responsible for hurting someone's feelings. The answer to this of course is to not let it bother you as much. He/she may be cute/cool/awesome/into that really obscure anime or game or character you adore, and there might be no one else on this site who fills that criteria for you, but people have to make their own choices, know? And for the person doing the rejecting, let them know you're not interested and if they bug out, ignore them inasmuch as they don't start exhibiting vindictive behavior afterwards. Learning to move on but respect and give your fullest to others, to be the better person, that's a wonderful thing.

I think a good rule of thumb is to not get your hopes up too much and when you message people keep in mind they probably wont respond. If they don't respond then it's no big deal, if they do then great.

Let me put it into perspective this way for you at least from a girls point of view. and trust me. this has happened to me every single time. >Receive Message >read, currently no conversation topics come to mind/busy, don't answer >hour later get a message along the lines of "ugly fucking bitch" other side of the table >receive message >read, initiate a conversation >receive flirting/advances, not particularly interested in initiating any of this with said messenger > politely tell them that you are not interested in a relationship however can continue the conversation as friends > radio silence > 30 minutes later receive messages with the lines "you whore" and "skanky bitch" so you see for girls, it's really not a safe choice on ether ends half the time. because the person you are talking to can be the nicest person until you tell them you just aren't interested in a relationship or hook up with them. then things turn ugly. It also helps to send a message with some context, instead of just a message with "hey" just saying

I agree with you 100%. On here I give them a week or two then delete from my friend list, or I send more messages, saying hello, hi, how are you doing. Simple stuff to get a more deep conversion going. Sometimes I get optimistic.

@neet oh trust me they do get reported but it is a frequent thing. to be honest. if the people reported got banned the community would deplete by more than half lols