BBWs on MaiOtaku

One thing that I have noticed that when it comes to romance and plus-sized and BBW women of color there are a lot of challenges. I have guys like my personality but as soon as they find out that I am plus-sized they run away lol. I do work out and keep myself in the best shape possible. But at the same time, I would like to feel like how my skinner friends feel when they have a guy interested in them. I know everyone has preferences. But I am curious to know are there guys out there who like the big girls? Because I noticing that it is rare....

I can't relate but i do have friends who want to find that special someone and feel that no one is interested in a plus-size woman. I'm pretty sure there are guys out there who love plus-sized girl,so don't discourage yourself.I'm super petite and really is oblivious to people who like me and i sometime attract pedos since i look a lot younger than my age, so it really does make it hard to understand ones feeling to romance for plus-sized woman.

Its not as rare as you think. There are alot of guys who like plus sized girls, you're just hitting the percentile that don't. Like yangi said don't get discouraged. :3

There is nothing wrong with plus size women. It's the plus size women that easy McDonald's for every meal that is the turn off for me. That isn't meant to sound mean towards anybody, but if you (used in general) are a bigger girl and eating fast food all the time and doing nothing but being a sloth, yes it's a bit of a turn off. It shows you don't care about yourself. Animeplus, you seem like you are a nice girl who isn't anything like I just mentioned. You should have no problem finding a person who will care about you :)

Healthiness is what Jikosan is referring to. If your someone that just loves food be it guy or girl and not try to make an effort its unattractive. Same goes for skinny people there are soo many out there that are border line anorexic its just human nature to want to be with someone healthy. I have guy friends with same problem...One he has a thyroid problem. HE ATE LESS THAN ME O_o I couldn't believe it and he drank lots n lots of water everyday. But he is healthy and kept his chin up and now has a girl that lots of guys are jealous of. Gurls you'll find your special someone that make others jealous ;) For all the Otaku BBW Keep that wonderful smile and love yourselves for who you are. Keep looking...there is someone out there ^+^

I like all shapes and sizes as long as the hearts in the right place. Nothing more erotic than an intellectual conversation also. @Fudo ~wink wink~

I've definitely had that feeling before and it always sucks. But like the others say I know there are guys out there who like the comfy cushion us bigger girls have. N I eat well n no McDonalds n also exercise so I don't want to hear any guy saying it's our own fault we are big.

Lol. I work out too. I do weights as well. And men don't believe me lol. I love this community very much it is helping me to build more and more confidence!