BBWs on MaiOtaku

Nope, I'm not saying anybody here is like that. I would not judge anybody on here without actually knowing them first. Yes, healthiness was what I was going for. You don't have to excersize or diet or any of that to be physicaly attractive if you are a BBW. where bigger people (guys and girls) lose points in that catagory is when they don't have any interest in their own health, but rather in fact, diminish it by being that stereotypical "fat" person. Lazy, unmotivated, eating everything unhealthy.. But in all honesty, if ANYBODY was like that, large or small, it would be a huge turn off.

I have the same issue. I've talked to people online and then pics happen and they're like oh...ok. That's why I actually have one up here. What you see is what you get. It may make things harder here, but...it's hard being heavy in general.

Yeah girl tell me about it! I know I will meet the right guy. But he has to be strong because it is not easy to be in a interracial relationship and also be a bigger person as well.

One day we both will. <3 and if he's strong enough to stay by you then I think it may make the relationship work better because you'll be fighting together against the stupid people out there. I honestly didn't know interracial relationships were still an issue. The area I'm in has many and people don't seem to have a problem, but we're a very mixed town.

It is still an issue. The stares that you get is so funny! I feel people are people and I can't help it if I have a sweetooth for White and Asian men lol.

It really isn't but what I have been told by my black manager she was trying to tell me how hard it is to get a job being her color I was like why I mean we have Obama I thought that boundary had been broken already long ago she tells me it hasn't. I paid more attention to how my co-workers treated her and it was sad to see it was true. Not all of course but I think that no matter what color you are no matter what race you are. The only difference is how you were raised other than that doesn't matter what color how you look or disabilities. We are no less than any one else but we can be more than those that put labels on us those that judge without getting to know us. If anyone tells you something for your color or size of your body...(sorry if I offend anyone) but that's just being ignorant and anyone like that doesn't deserve to be with you. Love yourself and others will love you for you. ^+^ is what I believe O_o

That is a great way to look at things Kirokun! I wish more people did. But you manager is right just because Obama is in office doesn't mean that everyone believes in diversity. I deal with the ignorance everyday it sucks....

I would like to add in my 2 cents on this topic. I won't judge someone based on how they look on the outside whether they are bigger built or smaller, to me its more about personality. I actually find people who are bigger built are much friendlier, some people who are super skinny think they are all that and they are really conceited. No offense to anyone here, not all people are that way. I have gained some weight over the years which I hope I can eventually lose but I would still hope people would not treat me any different no matter how I look. So in other words I really think you need to spend time getting to know the person not just right them off because of how they look on the outside, if you do that you miss out on meeting some really great people :)

I have no idea what the first post says, or anything on these two pages, seeing as how I didn't read any of it. I saw the thread name and I just wanted to say YEAH BIG GIRLS WOO! <3