Ladies:Ever have older men ask you out? does it scare you?

Hello ^_^ I've been having been having a slight thought, ive been on a dating site you know to either date or make new freinds, and the majority of men who pm me are like 30- on up one guy was like 38 and it's been bothering me that older guys have been attracted to me. Does this other anyone else? You see im 23 and i would like to stay in the 20-27 range. I just dont understand why that happens

I've had that happen before the one time I went on a dating site, and it really didn't bother me. I only had a problem with them PMing me and wanting a pic. Of course I have a wider age range that I'm cool with, which I noticed mattered less and less as I got older.

I understand where you are coming from. I really don't want to date someone close to my father's age. I will accept maybe up to 35 but after that age, I think there will be too much of a separation in life experiences. I believe in that there needs to be some common ground. A man who is in their late 30's can't do the same things that a man can do in the age range of 20-27. <br><br> You might have a mature old soul or a pretty face that they like. You might be more down to earth. There is probably something about you that is attracting them. Or they just find you. I get older men messaging me every once in a while too. I bet it is also because they like younger women. BUT also take Johnny Depp or some other movie star you have a crush on and is in his thirties. What if he came knocking at your door? hehehe

It also might depend on their life experiences and where they are coming from. You could probably find an older man to love. But be wary, because most will probably not be on the same page as you are. If that makes sense.

^-^ well i did like someone who was 35 but i was thinking about it alot and i have uncles that age and my freind his kids are like 13 15 and 16 and i think 11 year age gap is way too much. now i think back it would have be really weriod i know a girl thats my age thats dating a man whos 40. ><