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oh god some one broke out Palahniuk.... //report start I would still argue that any relationship you only get out what is being put in.... and I don't mean that in a literal sense...lol. If have the same problems over and over again with different 'mates', be you male or female, the problem may be no further then the type of person YOU are attracted to, or settling with. Granted we never see it that way first hand but it's so fucking common it's scary. The problem as I see it, is not 100% about the "way people are" but the fact that people are so afraid to be alone they will continually place them selves in situations where they are NOT happy just so they can have some one 'around', be it for sex, emotional stability, or "love" which most of the time just translates into a fix all reason why one person puts up with the bull shit there significant other dishes out. We make excuses to others, to ourselves, as a way to justify our poor decisions, and most of the time fall into the same trap shortly after we escape from out last one. I disagree with the "woman are more emotional creatures". And to justify "cheating" to find emotional support is FUCKING DUMB. If you are lacking something in a relationship, then you should either attempt to create it or move on, not keep a hand wrapped around one dick while looking for another. On the other hand men are no different. I have a deep seated resentment towards any one who cheats, or tries to rationalize the act. If you need to find what is lacking in a relationship....WHY the fuck are you not discussing it, or trying to find it with the person IN that relationship? WHY are you going to someone else to FILL that void? It fucking pisses me off, if there is a connection made with some one else, which happens, and you find something there that could be far greater then when you currently have, then break up and find out. But I guess its far easier to give it a "test drive" and cheat, so if it doesn't work out you can always just fall safely back into the arms of the "lacking" one. Yet again, afraid to be alone. That level of stupidity and emotional weakness gives me a headache. //end rant... report i mean.

As my name would give away, I am a big fan of Frank Herbert's works, Aside from that the list is far too long, ranging from fiction, philosophy, history/non-fiction, classics (Edmond Rostand is a personal favorite), commons such as Shakespeare, Nietzsche (Thus spoke Zarathustra is fantastic) "true" classics such as Homer, Sophocles, Marcus Aurelius.... Far too much to list. I generally read anything that catches my attention.