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I can be a bit long winded at times but yeah. Resentment will build as you convince yourself that there's no way that your partner would like the real you and "if only they could" you wouldn't have to put on an act. you start blaming them for your decision to be a faker and yeah you'd end up getting angry at your partner. It's just easier to find someone who loves the genuine you to begin with. But yeah I can see not wanting to bother with someone whose made NO thought towards what they are seeking in a relationship. Someone in their early 30s should at least have some ideas about it. That said...no need to rush it. One of the most fun parts of a new relationship is getting to know someone and to a degree having an open mind about it. boundaries? Of course, but being willing to come out of your shell and be a part of their world as they are a part of yours https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/f/f9/Part_of_Your_World_spinning.ogv/315px--Part_of_Your_World_spinning.ogv.jpg

Forgot I wanted to try those. TPBM likes gummi bears.