Oh have fun lol. I can't go this month, lack of funds. I'll definatly consider going when I actually have money to spend lol. Also I can only go on a weekend due to work etc.

Pfff now that you mention it, i'm 22 already. most girls my age that were in school with me got kids already.... it's not surprising she had kids, and if she didn't she probably would have wanted them as soon as you were committed. still it is something she should have mentioned. likely, the reason she did not is because most guys turn around straight away after finding out about kids.

Kwolf, don't mind that guy. @Gudmoor I see nothing wrong here, this girl just stated plainly what her intentions are. If she was looking for friends, shed go to a penpal website or community site. This is a dating site. Your reaction to her post was misplaced.

Maybe you'll have a long lasting relationship but most times, these things just last a couple of weeks, maybe a month. GO ahead, confess to her. And if it becomes serious, then maybe she'll for you should you get send abroad.

Old thread is old, necro. But then again there isn't much activity here so might as well. This list is pretty much correct. Because really, it isnt about what we as men find in ourselves that we think is attractive. Bottom line its about if Women find us attractive because if they dont, gone are our chances. Lets not be naive in thinking women will appreciate our better qualities from the get go. Because all the traits on the list that anyone may think are vain are also the only really VISIBLE things. So a guy's kindness, honestly, compassion, supportive-ness DO MATTER but the only way to get a woman to notice them is to get her to notice the other traits first. Sorry guys, and everyone who may stumble on this thread in the future, i know some of you may not want to hear it, but its true. Just about everything said about the upper numbers on that list is correct according to evolutionary psychology and biology.

aoiyosei, relationships always end in tears... "What are your thoughts on a relationship like that? Would you consider being in one?" Nothing wrong with it, but it is unlikely to happen, all 3(+) need to be in-love with each other which usually ends up being just Person A <3 B and B <3 C and C <3 A. and that's why these relationships often fail. Would I consider being in one? well speaking from experience, Yes I would, Once you truly go head over heels for someone you will be willing to share even if it hurts your heart like there is no tomorrow and every breath you take make your longs feel like they're about to collapse... (in my case the situation was as described with A->B->C->A. A being me, B being my crush and C being her best friend. We nearly went that far but in the end we decided against it and I went on a few date's with C to see if I could respond to her feelings, but I couldn't so it ended at that. No winners, all losers.

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