self confidence turn on or turn off

because im too sexy to explain this thread.lol oh and the ability to mock yourself is that a turn on or off,and family confidence the ability to be proud to show the girl off to his friends and family

I think so. But not too much that you come off as cocky. Unless getting punched is a turn on for you. LOL Then by all means, be cocky.

Self-confidence, great. Arrogance, not so much.

@amezuki agreed but i think self confidence and humor go hand in hand to defeat arrogance im self confident but im not arrogant i realize when its too far hence making fun of myself i can easily say that im so ugly i crack mirrors daily but on the other hand im so hot i burn you by being in the same area code.and @katenoid ooh kinky lol and you may not know this cause its on another thread but loving punches and stuff is a turn on eg rough housing but not too far like s+m waking up with hands bound gag in mouth.haha 0.0

Self-confidence is super sexy. It's kinda one of those contributing factors into why women think "bad boys" are sexy. But yeah, there's a line.

If you're not going to believe in yourself, then why should anybody else? That's the way I look at it. I like people similar to myself and Pride is by far my biggest sin. Thus, I find self-confidence very attractive, as long as a girl's not in my face with it. Ideally, I'd look for someone who's confidence and my own could feed off each other, rather than one eclipsing or crushing the other.

An overly confident person seems somewhat fake to me... At the same time, little to no confidence isn't good either. (Cough cough this is me...) Just like everything else, there has to be a balance. I'd prefer it if someone was confident & was able to speak their mind, but still was self-concious sometimes. I feel like people who are openly able to admit they aren't 100% confident are the most honest/genuine out there...