Confessions

I mean... You could just say "Hey, do you want to get drinks sometime?" and go from there. Don't wait on her, just try and see what happens.

I'm alone. No real friends. Never dated. I have some family around me, but that can only do so much for my personal growth. I've just turned 28. I've never had anyone significant in my life, and I'm starting to hate it, but I just can't find the drive to work on any of my flaws, which I've got quite a few of. I've tried using dating apps recently, but my personality prevents anything from working out. Not that it matters...not once, not one single time, has anyone ever sent me any messages on those apps. I've sent a few, but my drive just isn't where it needs to be for me to have any success. Which is kinda funny, since I think having someone in my life would be more than enough to provide said drive. A true-as-blue Catch 22. I feel like I'm a really easy person to get along with, it's just that there's one major flaw...I'm really boring. Really, really boring. I don't like having plans. I don't like going anywhere. I don't like to do much of anything. Once in a great while, I'll get into a random mood where I really want to cook, or clean, or read, or even go somewhere for a day, but those moods are few and far between. I don't like loud places, disruptive things, or unnecessary drama. Realistically, I just want to sit down, chill out, maybe drink some coffee, and just do things that most people would call "unproductive". Basically, I just want to live life as simply as I possibly can. I just don't want to do that alone. I'm looking for someone as low-key as I am, but that's...that's something that's really hard to find, especially on dating apps or sites like this one. I look at all of these peoples' images, and they're having a good time at the beach, or at a party, or restaurants, or conventions, and I...I'm just not interested. It looks awful. I'm quickly running out of hope for myself in regards to finding a girlfriend, let alone just a normal, really good friend, y'know? Sorry. It sounds like everyone in this thread is having their own fun times, I just...finally wanted to offload some of this mental baggage. Thanks for reading.

My wife got her hip messed up pretty bad by a chiropractor. Remember, it's considered "alternative" medicine and they are not medical doctors. That's not to say they don't have their place.