Confessions

Well, I'm not here to give life lessons (there's a thread for that) but I'll offer one opinion... When a guy's mentality is "I want a girl so I can have sex so my peers don't make fun of me" it SHOWS ON THE GUY'S SLEEVE. A girl could be interested in the guy initially, but the poison of that type of mindset will always show through eventually, and when it does, the girl will be put off by it and suddenly back away. Ignore your peers. Yeah, it's easy for me to say that since I don't have a bunch of insecure dbags barking their own insecurities in my ear on a daily basis... but it's the best advice I have.

Sorry guys. I just got used again by a girl who came to me first, and my dad is probably going to die soon. No money or anything I do can help him. It's just a bad day.

tf is going on............. real talk time, boy-o, if you really wanna have the sex, join tinder or smth because ain't nobody lookin' for romance on tinder; they're lookin' for butt stuff. if you do want romance/true love, then just keep trying and the right girl will appear at the right time. there's nothing wrong with not having sex until you meet the right person, and there's nothing wrong with just hooking up either. it's all about personal preference, and if your coworkers can't respect your preference to wait for the right girl, fuck 'em. you do you, my dude, don't let your peers pressure you into making snap judgments that don't match what your heart wants. however, might i add that 2D is justice? because 2D is justice.

Thank you Megan. I do want true love. My coworkers have even tried pushing to get a prostitute and I tell them no. It doesn't feel right unless I really do have feelings for them. I never even considered doing that. You just get fed up after awhile of not having one person to love, and loving you back.

patience is a virtue, my guy! it does suck, but there aren't a ton of like-minded people in this world as far as your values are concerned, so it might take a bit longer to find the right girl! it'll be worth it when you do meet her, though! first loves are always amazing!

I heavily agree with Space Cadet. Girls will see right through the man. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 and guess what your mates are still going to rag on your because you've only done it with one girl. Your friends are going to tease you man that is what friends do. Worry about finding a girl you like and be with her. Also never say things like you're "gentlemen" you show off a real "nice guy" act and women hate that. Also, I don't get that many replies with women on here either but I don't let it get me down. I'm mostly on here because I like talking to other people about anime.

That's normal though. 20 is a normal age for that to happen. I don't brag about being a gentleman. I was just telling spacecadet that I was raised that way. This ain't really a dating site. I been on here a long time. It's more like an anime facebook more than anything. I am not a piece of crap that treats women like shit. Like I said guys. It's just a bad day altogether. I never wanted to be a player and never will. Also I really am a genuine nice guy. There is no act! That's all I hear from girls.