so I'm on a dating site

So you are saying you haven't look for a pretty girl or cute for your partner If you say you haven't then I will really think badly of you Yes by all means it's what starts it and then you see if you are compatible but it does have a big part on choosing since we are visual beings

Here again.... What about blind people? XD My vision is really poor, with out my glasses everyone just looks like a blurry tree.

Yes, looks is what starts it. And physical attraction will honestly still stay after someone is "disfigured". The physical attraction is caused by chemistry. That chemistry still stays. Like I was saying, I could find someone really attractive and you could think they where super ugly. And blind people still have to have physical attraction as well. I have a friend that is blind (and super attractive, mind you) and he says it really annoys him that he is always hit on by really unattractive girls because they think because he is blind, he wont know. That is a misconception. They can still tell if they have physical attraction with someone. you still have to touch, etc, in a relationship. Physical attraction is a feeling, not necessarily just based off what you can see. Online, however, you can't get the "feeling" that you would in person, but you can tell with a picture if you would get that. So yeah. And without my contacts, everyone is just a blur as well.

You guys ever see that movie Shallow Hal? You need to watch it. Love has little to do with physical attraction. HOWEVER! SEX has everything to do with it. So I'm not sure if ya'll are looking for someone who can be your best friend and soul mate or just a cheap date that's good lookin.

Well I just one to state one thing I do look for cute girls and all but if I see that there's no chemistry or we don't have anything in common even if they are beautiful I discard them from my social circle since I don't see a friendship or anything else and that's if we have nothing in common but those are pretty extreme cases

Again, physical attraction isn't the only thing people are looking for -.- Its just that it IS important! You asked for our advice and we are giving it to you! Don't go asking for it and then be pissed when we tell you something because it isn't what you want to hear. We are trying to explain to you that the things needed for a successful relationship are as follows: physical attraction, emotional compatibility, personality compatibility. If you don't believe that that is true, you are just being delusional. If physical attraction is missing, that is the formula for a good friendship, not a good romantic relationship. I'm not just looking for a "cheap good looking date". I am looking for someone that I am emotionally and PHYSICALLY attracted to, however. Again, if you are going to ask us for our opinions, don't get pissed about what we say because it isn't what you want to hear.

Alexis, I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at the system. And I thought people on here would be more geared to look for people based on other things besides looks. But you know what they say: "Can't stick my d*** in your personality."