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Putting Love on hold

tamasama
Have you find yourself putting the search for true love on hold? I find my self doing this after i got friendzone not once but twice. Is it true that good things come to those who wait? It seem that good things comes to "Cheaters" "Liars" and "Fakes". I just don't want to wait till im 30 to find true love.
cecil
Jul 15, 13 at 11:21pm
I could see taking a break after ending a rocky relationship. I've also seen people try way to hard to get into relationships also. I think it just comes down to finding a good balance and not giving up when shot down. My biggest trouble with girls in recent months is I keep liking girls who are already taken. :p
blazingbow1
Good thing come to those who get right back up after being friend zone
stand_alone_complex
I would like to think I'm a good person. I'm just waiting for someone to show some damn interest that I wouldn't mind dating. It's bad enough I can't find leads on okay cupid or POF but when I can't find someone on an Otaku site, the sky must be falling.
blazingbow1
Isn't too early to say? Give it mayberry time and effort. Maybe go out and try yourself
socrates
Jul 16, 13 at 1:41am
I think it really varies form person to person. :o Personally, I date within the "friendzone", believe it or not. I've only ever dated people I've been friends with for a few years, the little leeches. ❤ lol <p> If you feel that going out there and all that searching is only frustrating you, then sit back, and enjoy life! Go out with friends as often as you can, or go adventuring on your own if you'd like. Get involved with new hobbies, explore new hang-out joints. I know that can me hard (or maybe I'm just a hermit ; A ; ), but you'll gain some fun experiences, and maybe one day, when you're sitting at that newly found book shop, some little cutie patootie will stroll up to the genre section of your interest, and history will begin from there!<p> Sometimes, when you're pressuring yourself into finding love, you become bitter and irritated, and potential fishies can sense that. I've lived through that, haha, trust me. D: But if you feel you're not at that point, then keep looking! c:
tamasama
Jul 16, 13 at 4:51pm
i've seem to been put in the friendzone alot and its frustrating to me and i would go out and about but this heat over here is a killer so i decided to stay in where its cool. I wonder sometime because of my slight medical condition is that the reason why also im friendzoned but then again there somebody for everybody but it look like its taking a while for my "Somebody" to show
blazingbow1
if that the case, maybe you just need increase your enocounter rate, try walking on some tall grass
blazingbow1
walk on tall grass is a metaphor, go to bars, strip clubs, library, college , etc
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