Why does it always happen?

well if there friends they would not leave you over 1 thing its like sometimes i don't know why i am friends with some people that don't treat me well or use me etc, so i would think personality is good to make friends , like how people prefers to use pictures of anime characters because that's what there based on and its mainly personality focus and not about what you look like, well that what i think anyways so people know me as my personality and not what i look like etc. Also things about you or who you are is what makes all of us special, if everyone is the same well that is a boring world, think anime where every character has something unique about them, not because of their personality, but the things they do to react, such as some are funny, some are serious, some are just there for 1 episode randomly.

Exactly!! These are people who are anime nerds and obviously anime didn't teach them a thing unlike it did me. ._. This is stuff like that I have a slight speech impediment. Or that I have two different optic nerves. Or any other physical trait I have that I cannot change without surgery. Or in one case because I had a mixed bestfriend, pro gay rights and have no problem with special ed kids. >.>

Now the question is are you the kinda person that's seeking for relationship /friendship, because though the question is why does this happen to me and it does explain, it doesn't explain what you would like now, a friend in need? or a relationship in need?

Just trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. >.> I mean, people usually at least get in the relationship before it ends, while I get a couple months of just 'talking' about being with them, without actually being with them. So confusing.

Just trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. >.> I mean, people usually at least get in the relationship before it ends, while I get a couple months of just 'talking' about being with them, without actually being with them. So confusing.

there are times where people be with someone as friends or whatever then stay in the friend zone or they cant be asked to keep in contact with them under certain things such as A, they got bored of them or B, they just gone lazy so relationships are confusing, but then again i cant speak for everyone

*read whole thing* alright, here we go *cracks knuckles* I think many of us on the site have been there, including myself. It is aggravating to no end... if i don't want to talk with someone i will straight out say it, but it takes a lot for me to get to that point. I am generally a very friendly person, but people seem to enjoy ganging up on me, talking behind my back, ect. If i have issues with someone i generally like to address it head on with them. There have been people who ticked me off to no end, i pull them aside and talk to them directly. In regards to a loss of interest, i generally don't lose interest in people, unless they are very one dimensional, which almost no one is. I am a person of the mind, if someone interests me i tend not to lose interest(yes i know that sounds weird...) In regards to number of "friends" i only would use that word for q handful of people. I generally tolerate certain people more than others. Note: there are only 4 individuals i can honestly say "i respect them" i very rarely use the word "respect" , but when i do, i mean it. "You don't need to make a million friends in 1st grade, just that 1 who will care about you 100x as much." If you know that quote you win 15 points. Note: the points are only matter of self pride in having them. They carry no real value

I just have a problem when they say that they like me, don't say they lost interest, but keep doing the same exact thing. It's MY fault for being negative about it. For them to randomly stop talking to me after talking to me almost every hour of everyday. That's what bothers me. How can someone's thoughts about someone change like that when one minute they like you, the next they dont? ._.

well this conversation is getting more complicated but human mind is complicated its like how guys can never understand girls as well as how girls never understand boys