Why does it always happen?

That's how it is. like, if I'm bothering you, just say it, cause you're wasting my time anyway. xD Don't try telling me I'm important, when I'm not.

In high school I had the same issues. I'm pretty good now at picking up when I'm unwelcome to conversations, and I'm a lot better at handling conversations with other people. Just takes time to pick up the cues, because sitting here talking about it is good and all but you have to work on it.

It's like, do you know the song by Kelly Clarkson, "Don't let me Stop You"? It's just like that. If they'd just be honest, then okay. But they like lead me onto thinking something will happen and then it never does. As if their saying "I like you, because we have similar interests and you're nice to me, but I don't want to be with you because of who you are as a whole" ._.

well this is the situation where you kinda choose your friends, some friends just not worth being friends with, if a friend expect for me to always start the conversation that is not a friend as well as friends help each other and help each other with problems, i rather have 1 faithful friend than many people tat i class as friends. sometimes your just going to have to let some friends be, no point of being loyal to someone that treats you bad. if friends just don't appreciate you then maybe there not your type of friends, you don't have to force yourself(change of personality) in order to be friends with someone just be yourself. smiley face:)

Its harder to find friends for some peoples personality that way... speaking from experience >_< I do agree with not giving up your personality but it can be brutal

@Soni I know how you feel cause it happens to me time after time. But I have learn that if they don't want to give you the time of day or at least are willing to try then its their problem. Try not to work so much and know there is another person out there.

"I'm different than most guy's" - most guys. "I'm different than most girls" -most girls Honestly if someone is telling you that fairly early in a relationship. They are just playing a game. In today's time marriage doesn't even guarantee the, till death do us part, part.

I have been in the same boat, Soni. no matter who i talk to, heck Even in friendships in real life and online, they stop talking to me. Even when i say hi... But every time they say, when i tell them' I'm used to it', "Don't be used to it!" then the same freaking thing happens. T~T it aggravates me, but i learn to keep calm and carry on; Mainly for the fact that it most likely would happen again. And i don't want to feel like it is my fault when i am actually not ignoring them. so I do not think you are out of line... people change their minds and some people just give up trying to keep in touch...

I try to stay in touch but when its a constant "So you don't wanna talk to me I guess?" "I never said that, stop being so negative" and then they still stop talking to me after I explain how it made me feel. >.> I'm not trying to come across as negative, but it does make me concerned for future relationships. Yes, friends do it too. It's like, someone talks to me, immediately I think 'Well, when are you gonna leave too?' Even if I'm just friends with that person. I've lost so many friends over stupid crap like this. ._. I have only three friends IRL, only one that I really trust though. It's like something about me, who I am, or just when they see me face to face, that nobody likes.