Weird Relationship stuff!

I’m sort of confused by normie relationship shit ƪ(‾ε‾“)ʃ or more like I can't stand it? One thing I see is so many people get uncomfortable at the thought of being with their partner forever or dating with marriage in mind, it's so weird to me... Another thing is I see so many of my friends relationships end after not even a year of dating, it makes me think like "Well what was the point of that," But I think its because my idea of love is too naive. But I wouldn't date anyone I wasn't sure of, so if you can help it... You need to be absolutely sure you want to spend the rest of your life with someone before you date them, I feel like that should be common sense (∩´͈ ᴖ `͈∩ ྀི)... Or do people just date to date.. I don't want to think it's like meaningless shallow stuff... Be like the alpha wolfs you are!! Mate for life!! Lolol sorry Anyway that's my stupid opinion for the day! -Shard out!

"Normie relationship shit" is corrupt. What all I'ma say is likely gonna be controversial as hell, but I.. really dc what others have to say about my opinions, and no disrespect meant by that. When we have a culture that heavily endorses having a body count, cheating, and people are just hooking up with who tf ever just so they can feel a bit "gangster", and making relationships all about sex, and it doesn't stop there. Birth control. Abortion. Both needs to stop. Equivalents of kidnapping, and murder, ngl. No sin greater than preventing the creation of, and/or the birth of, a child. And when people in relationships are asked "Oh are you two gonna get married?" And they reply "Uhh maybe." Or "Hmm probably." Nonono, the answer should always be yes. And if it's anything else, there's a problem somewhere in the relationship.

@forgetmenot (idk if I should at you I’m still new to this website!) I agree with most of what you said! but there is absolutely nothing wrong with abortion or birth control, women can and should do whatever they want with their bodies. and that’s fact, not an opinion, Religion has no place in facts! ദ്ദി˶˃ ᵕ ˂ )✧

Nothing wrong with abortion? Whoa there, partner. I can understand the view on birth control being more of a hot take, but.. abortion is literally just killing babies. Even when they aren't born yet, they're still living human beings. Imagine you're a guy, who just found out he's having a baby, and the girl calls for an abortion, just so she can have more sex, likely with other guys, or, doesn't want to take care of a kid. How would you feel? Women have been the result of death of more babies through abortion, in just the past few decades, than men have in all of history. Look up the stats if you don't believe me. Now if women/men wanna cut up their genitals, that's fine and dandy, whats important is to do whatever makes you happy, just not.. yknow.. killing people. We gotta draw the line at abortion. But ima stop there so this doesn't turn into a debate thread

@forgetmenot I want to explain some stuff to you really quickly, even minor stuff that you may or may not know, I hope you don’t mind since this is actually a really good discussion, I don’t want this to be a debate either but it is good to spread information which may or may not be helpful to others. While it is a stage of human development, fetuses and embryos(different from babies “A fetus is the medical term for a developing human inside the uterus from the ninth week of pregnancy until birth. A baby is a social or legal term used to describe an infant born after delivery”) cannot feel pain (unless 27 weeks into the pregnancy), they cannot think, the only time they somewhat gain… something like a consciousness is 20 to 24 weeks, and when women can get an abortion it’s usually up to 10-12 weeks into the pregnancy when the woman cannot even FEEL any fetus, cause well… it’s the size of a prune (1.5 inches). So in short the fetus/embryo, WHEN someone can get an abortion, it’s during the days when the fetus/embryo won’t be able feel any pain. Abortions are also not unusual at all, many animals Terminate pregnancies themselves, yes! So if you believe in god he made the animals on this earth able to terminate pregnancies, he doesn't mind abortion, which is clear in numbers 5:11-31 in the Bible. Anyways, animals do this when there is environmental stress, not enough resources, or when there is a threat etc, i would recommend looking up the different animal's reasons and why they do this if it interests you hehe I wanna answer some of your questions: “Imagine you're a guy, who just found out he's having a baby” I don’t know if the guy in this instance is a trans man or not but I’m gonna take it like you mean a cisgendered man The cisgendered man cannot have a baby, since the girl can, if she wants an abortion it’s up to her. That’s how things work. If she has the baby and doesn’t want to take care of it, she should’ve gotten an abortion (since the poor kid is gonna grow up neglected), or she should give it up for adoption. There are so many kids in the system anyways that need loving mothers and fathers. So my opinion is that they should be adopted and given good homes instead of people having children in the state the world is in at the moment. “Women have been the result of death of more babies through abortion, in just the past few decades, than men have in all of history.“ I looked it up and that is not true! Especially since babies and fetuses are two different things, though it is more common that women with postpartum have killed their children (once they gave birth of course because abortion is not killing a baby) Anyway that’s that! I mean this genuinely even if you take this the wrong way but I do hope you have a wonderful rest of your day, ✧*。٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و✧*。

True, and look at you thinking of the kids. While you have a point that kids shouldn't have to grow up dealing with our society, and all the corruption... I still don't think Abortion should be an option, as it is a parent responsibility to raise their child, and keep them away from those things. And if a girl doesn't wanna take care of a kid, that's just a bad girl imo. Why not? I was raised by a single mother, and it was tough for the both of us, but now I'm successful, and now going to college soon, despite me being neglected and abused because I was an "unwanted pregnancy" in her own words, but she didn't get an abortion, and now look at me. None of that would have happened were I aborted, just coz what? She didn't wanna give up her "freedom" over a kid? If you really can't, then put them up for adoption. Because at least then, they have a chance at life. And miracles do happen. But ngl, respect to you for indulging me on this and yknow... actually talking on your side of it. I came half expecting to get crashed out on tbh LOL