Relationships

akiraaaaa675 @akiraaaaa675
started
Relationships
akiraaaaa675 @akiraaaaa675
How well do you know if cheating is present in a relationship?

yaasshat @yaasshat
commented on
Relationships
yaasshat @yaasshat
Short of catching your partner cheating, you can't know for sure.
Do you suspect yours is?

Chocopyro @chocopyro
commented on
Relationships
Chocopyro @chocopyro
Well, as someone who's been cheated on a decade or two ago, a lot of the behavioral signs that people think are signs of cheating are actually just signs of disinterest or broken trust. For example. The girlfriend I had about a decade or two ago thought I was the one cheating because I was growing increasingly withdrawn and disinterested in her. So there was a long period of unwarranted suspicion that never really panned out into anything. I get like that sometimes. My adhd causes me to dive way too deeply into video games and anime, and I become despondent to the rest of the world. We have this thing we kinda have trouble regulating. It's called Impulse control, coupled by a strong bias towards highly stimulating visuals. And I don't mean boobs, I mean saturated colors, dynamic fight scenes, and flashy game mechanics. And I didn't know about my demisexuality until much later in life, but that too was misread.
So unless you find physical evidence like hickies/lipstick on their neck, outfits with another man's stains on them, or she give's birth to a kid that doesn't share your or her genetics, at a certain point you just kinda have to trust them, even if it looks like the same thing from that past relationship that you were hung-up on before getting into a new one. -passive aggressive leer-

αlερh-2 @alephy
commented on
Relationships
αlερh-2 @alephy
I'm might break up with Windows, that bitch is really starting to piss me off. Imma whore myself off to Linux if bloated ass Windows doesn't loose some weight
Please login to post.