I never see anything change on this site

Depends by people. There are people, but they have their cliques. Some are loners like myself just killing time between shifts, while others live on the site 24/7 posting memes. If in reference to dating then it is heavily region based. Dating people in Texas, New York, or California will be easier than North Dakota or Alaska. Then you have to factor in the site is unregulated with no guidance as to rules of engagement between users. This isn't helped by the fact people find entertainment stirring pots. Then there is the site itself being poorly optimized making discussion difficult. I am personally put off by the lack of spacing in text paragraphs. Used to be one could, but no more without going through some pain in the ass method. Anyway. Long story short the site is a roll of the dice. You're either hitting jackpot or bust! No in between.