Trying to solve the mystery of why there are so few women looking for dates

Women do tend to be approached more often, but also tend to hang in more diverse groups it seems to where its easy to find people. Ive found all my ex's from friend groups / mutuals. Its hard to find a gf if your entire friend group is guys, so once you surround yourself with different groups, you're better off. Thats my experience.

Well you just posted 18 minutes ago sooooo... 18 minutes?

seems like 95% of the new users dont even interact with the community anyways.. they make an account, kinda respond to posts on their page and you never hear from them again.

I mean you hear horror stories from girls on here about their interactions with guys in their DMs and is it any wonder many don't stick around after three or four days? The site has also significantly trended from a primarily dating site (which was the initial intention) to more of an otaku facebook. It's lead to a heavily lopsided ratio of guys to girls just even on the site in general and many of the girls that do join (and stick around) probably only looking for friends and not necessarily to find a relationship.