Why are you single?

trauma honestly.. not like abuse or anything.. but bad enough i don't want to lose (as in their life) anyone else so it's difficult for me to trust and build a connection. 11 years later and i'm only now starting to feel comfortable telling others about what happened..

Solo amiche maranza purtroppo e per loro sono il migliore amico gay visto che per stare con loro devi avere minimo 30 anni e 2 condanne. Oppure sono timido e non trovo ragazze con stessi interessi

Why I am single? I don't meet enough new people to actually find someone. Registered here to hopefully help with that a little bit. Will also try to attend more cons and try meet new people. There is also an e-sports bar in the neighboring city which I have to try visit some time. I just hope they show StarCraft 2 games.

...Because I value more friendships then relationships. People did asked me out last month I've had rejected them all because I rather work on myself. I was in a relationship for a year. Should take time for myself thinking about talking to people who feels the way about me because at this point they desver better and the right person. For me.. I can't provide that promise sorta scared felling in love again. Just because of my past relationship and crushes.

Scared that I might mess up. And just that I have huge doubts that the person I like will like me back so I don’t bother. Also the feeling that I’m not good enough

The sugar momma scene is empty sadly Totes joking xD

I have a hard time keeping in contact with people. I don't mind taking, but I just forget that there's people who would talk to me.

Mhh, honestly it's a bucket list and its a chain reaction. My early childhood was chaotic, in my teens i suffered emotional neglect. That made me never feel like i fitted in so i just did things on my own. I tried reaching out and going on dates but often feel my interests just don't allign with theirs. I cooked, toke them out for picknicks, went to museums, lost weight, etc. But noticed i always was the one that had to initiate and pull the cart. Eventually i got the feeling i just wasn't good enough for some. and at this point i feel like i'm just lagging behind on the romance department and would have to find someone understanding and patient to actually form a connection.

Short answer: My boyfriend recently broke up with me, otherwise I wouldn't be. Long answer: I have a solid grasp on what I'd like my next relationship to be like, and for that to happen, it's probably going to be a while until I find the right person. I don't want to "fall in love at first sight" like I used to, and would rather wait and truly learn about the other person. As I've gotten older, I've learned that I don't have the time or care for short-term relationships, and have decided that if I get into a relationship with someone, that person will be someone I'd eventually love to settle down with one day. I thought that's what I had before, but unfortunately the other person ended up not loving me in a romantic way, but rather a deep caring way. For now that's the amount of comfort I'm okay with to get by. And even though we've broken up, I can't see myself jumping into another relationship so soon. The type I like is also a hit or miss for me as well because I feel like I might not be good enough for them. And I'd definitely would not want to settle with someone I knew deep inside I didn't feel the same way for. I've been through it both ways and it hurts too much to go through again.