After 7 years, I'm going to say that a girl will not ask me out. What do

thank you @swadian and @elizabeth_hart for continuing with me on this thread. Thing is.. I don't know how to talk to humans... it doesn't matter if they are male or female... if we don't already have something in common, they might as well be an alien to me. Also, I have many hobbies, I taught myself web development, PHP, javascript, MySQL, css/html. I taught myself how to use Blender 3D (3D modeling software) And also photoshop. I'm very very good with an exacto knife on anything craft related. And I'm currently teaching myself 2D hand-drawn animation and I can draw. And I know to use an Arduino (hardware development board) to an extent... lol so I do have some hobbies. I think we are maybe good on the hobbies... or maybe not. I can get more lol.

Step 1. Find Master Ball Step 2. Throw the Master Ball Step 3. ????????? Step 4. Profit$$

Stop trying to get us to talk about programming lol. I'm also a developer but don't really like the talk outside of work Let's see... Is there anything that appeals to you? History? Music? Cinema? Food? Cooking? Animals? Cars? Planes? War? You can use this site to develop your conversationalist skills overtime you know

Lots of people have actually grown out of their cocoons thanks to the site so, it definitely can be done, fight!!! (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*.✧

@upcat just be the way you are. The girl will be interested in your true colors

If you are that focused on work, you can at least appeal more to feelings like... Why do you like what you do, your plans for the future, an animation you were proud of... or whatever. Some will care, some not, but if you keep trying it will be less and less awkward.

thank you @swadian I'm not trying to be difficult I promise. I'm learning how to be human lol. OK, I will talk to people more on this site, definitely if that will help. History exists, its important to know (that we may not repeat) but not always fun to talk about. Music is fun to listen to not talk about. food is nice to eat, not talk about. Cooking is some times fun to do not to talk about. Animals are fun to talk to, cats are fun to stick my face in their belly before I have to gently peel their claws off the sides of my head. Cars are a utility... War is something to avoid. ... People like talking about these things? I'm not trying to be dificult.. you are talking to a strange one (me) I'm sure we can all agree by now. thank you @elhaym I will get there. Also @whispywoods , I Pack plastic bottles into boxes for a living.. the things I listed are hobbies to me lol, I don't know why everyone keeps saying work. I would love to do any one of those things for a living, instead, I do them for fun, other people don't, so I don't talk much about them, peoples eyes glaze over pretty quick in my experience. Thank you all for your responses, getting the chance to write my responses back to you all is helping me see and understand things better. perhaps it is helping me to vent a little as well.

Why not show women pictures of your stuff you make in blender? I’m sure an artistic woman could appreciate it. Do you drink alcohol? If not, maybe it’s time to start. A little bit of liquid courage in your system helps you be less rigid in conversation.

Yeah dont wait 7 years to avoid relationships i made the same mistake, just start to connect with people now i hope you'l find someone that connects with you too <3.