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feralfroggy
Hey, uhm, so I have this situation. As you know I recently broke up with my boyfriend but now my ex who i dated before him is being a little flirty but i cant tell if he's serious or what. it has left me confused as to what to respond with. For example we're just having a reg convo and he'd call me cutie and other things. I'm not sure if I'm developing feelings again. He's rather adorable tho.
rinkae
Apr 12, 20 at 12:29am
Bad move. Very bad move. He is an ex for a reason and it's better to distance yourself from him. Easier said than done and you are probably just gonna go back to him anyway but just know it is a horrible horrible move.
reisenpai66
Apr 12, 20 at 12:33am
Ah, kids these days :p I second the notion that its bad news bears. I cut all ties after relationships, personally.
rinkae
Apr 12, 20 at 12:34am
As you should. There is a reason the relationship ended and sticking around and being friends with them causing nothing but pain and confusion. Exactly like what she is going through now.
fiendleo
Apr 12, 20 at 12:51am
Hmm.. honestly at this point no advice is helpful. You know him batter than anyone.. the reason he’s your ex doesn’t need to be pointed out for Jan but again don’t hesitate with this stuff. Just do what’s best for you and go with it. Overthinking is always bad..I won’t lie but I know you genuinely deep down know his intentions and only you know what’s best for you wether it be getting back together or cutting him off but only you can make that choice.
solid_snake95
I have no room to talk but be extremely careful. I know not all exes are the same like mine is where we can be chill ass friends but there are toxic exes too. :(
vinyl_retroflexed
Sorry to say this @fiendleo. There is such a thing called nostalgia glasses. A person who got broken up, might put his/her EX man/woman in the pedestal above others. Making past love over glorified, and blinded by reality. When Rinkeae says she will go back to him, and get hurt again. She is not kidding. You sound right, but through personal experience its objectively wrong. This is why Froggy is coming to us for help, to help remove her nostalgia glasses/filter her thoughts and options. If she didn't need the help, why is she posting this in the first place? We can't ignore her pain, and let her fall once again in doubt/misery.
solid_snake95
Froggy ngl....you will get hurt again :(
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vinyl_retroflexed
Well first she must remove the filter, with venting her opinions and feelings. BEFORE Considering that as a option. Second chances, deserves a clear mind and careful thinking.
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