How much do you make your friends feel like friends?

For decades, making friends has been overwhelmingly difficult for me to accomplish and keep up with. Even though my mother said I have many friends, I don't quite get to hangout with any (especially in groups of Millennials) nor talk with much. But sometimes I'm happy being alone. I'm very informative, but not always fun to listen to. Sometimes I am very quiet. As for listening to others, it's harder. My body dislikes listening to others' knowledge that's not useful yet or never interesting to me at all. Some say about certain knowledge like, "This will help you succeed in life." My grammar skills can be confusing and questionable. My father advised me to "simplify" to avoid overwhelming others at times when too much information is unnecessary, but that doesn't always help because time is an enemy of research.

I don't make a great friend. I don't initiate conversations, nor do I reply. If I hang with a large group I feel out of place and will often go off on my own to find a more comfortable setting. I feel like when I try to go the extra mile for friends they don't accept it or don't need it. I don't really bring much to the table besides jokes and a light mood when hanging out with me. I also have the habit of making friends who are like sociopaths. I think I attract those people because I don't get too close emotionally, and that's comfortable for them. I wish I was more open emotionally so I could find solid friends but it's just something I don't understand.

I don’t make my friends feel like friends~ When I recognize their mental and intellectual capacity.

I guess it varies between the friend groups I have... For those in school, I would actually show how comfortable I am with them first and tease them. I help them with school work, with errands (like running all the way to get their bags in another building), writing letters for them every once in a while and with skipping subjects without getting caught. For my friends online, I guess the best thing I've done for majority of them is to listen to their problems and cheer them up. I think, that's one way of making them feel like I care about them very much. Sometimes, if I remember, I write down things for them. I would usually send voice messages in hopes that their day gets better ;0; Although I feel like sometimes I think I come off as annoying when I try to make new friends, I still try regardless ^^; Over all, I think I'm doing an okay job at making my friends feel like they're my friends, but I think I can do better

I don't really care for having many friends, especially as an adult. It gets harder and harder to keep up with multiple people. But I do still have a close set of friends that I ensure I keep up with. If they're troubled, I'm always open to listen. if they need help with anything, I got them. If they need help financially and I can spare, got them. I'm incredibly loyal to those who I feel are worthy of it. I think I make a pretty good friend at the end of the day.

Barely. I don't do enough to appreciate them, nor make them feel important, granted, I don't have that many friends for starters, and the few close ones I have I don't put the work I should on them. It's even worse if you factor that sometimes I can't keep up with most of my friends list.

@candystarmagic doesn’t headpat or love me anymore. She adopted me as her loli and left me outside unloved. Don’t believe anything she says