How much do you make your friends feel like friends?
BurningHalo @burninghalo
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How much do you make your friends feel like friends?
BurningHalo @burninghalo
Time for a bit of humblebragging people! How do you make the lives of your friends better? Do you make sure to make time for them? Do you make them feel valued and trusted? Maybe you tell great jokes? Act as a listening ear with no expectation of reward for it? Maybe an example of when you were a really good friend to someone.
Or if not, what is some advice on ways you or others could be better friends to someone?
Bonus Q: Are you a guy,girl,other?
Lishifu @hakutaku
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Lishifu @hakutaku
I do some things for my friends though I cannot respond to their messages quickly (the life of a full-timer who has various hobbies heh.I do wish I could have 48 hours one day)
1.I try to learn random facts about their cultures/languages/countries/beliefs.I am rather ignorant,but when I am not overwhelmed mentally,I may random books about German linguistics;WWI/WWII;Mathematics;history of Pakistan;Ramayama;chemistry;Jews;Slavs;Yakut and so on to understand my friends better,to keep the deep conversations going on.
2.I remember things they mentioned XD.One of my Chinese friends has been depressed for a few days,yesterday I found out the doll(because she showed us her doll) and advised that “can my girl be ur girl’s daughter?”
3.Though I’m rather reclusive and emotionally conservative,I do want people to know how I appreciate them .Occationally,I take the initiative to send them letters/postcards/gifts (if they trust me enough..At times I am rather hesitant because some people may suspect my intentions ).Now,I’m more interested in sending people things made by myself,so I have had learned new skills.
4.I try my best to be available when they are faced with emergencies and want my advice or want me to be a listener.
5.I take silly pictures to entertain people from time to time.
I am not really a good friend heh, I am not good at comforting people with words and being constantly available.I’m afraid of people getting obsessed with me,so it takes me “for ever” to open up. I do my best to be in good spirits so as not to let my negative emotions affect others.
Great Daddy MH39 @gdmh39
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Great Daddy MH39 @gdmh39
give em all some love
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Whisp @whispywoods
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Whisp @whispywoods
Wait, you are supposed to make your friends lives better??
Baka @reinhardt76
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PucaetGniliasEht @thesailingteacup
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punkrockanimefiend421 @punkrockanimefiend421
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punkrockanimefiend421 @punkrockanimefiend421
fuck idk all my friends are drug addicts that don't even like anime.
im pretty much the minority in this hell hole.
but if i had to say, maybe..... every now and then.
blissfullforce1818 @blissfullforce1818
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sanrio @sanrio
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sanrio @sanrio
I exchange gifts with them, give them food or take them somewhere out to eat, always check up on them when I have a feeling somethings wrong (I’m pretty good at figuring stuff like that out.)
라이언 (ARCHER) @truffle
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라이언 (ARCHER) @truffle
Hmm...
I treat almost everyone the same. There are things that I do specially for my friends:
• Talk with them in DM and in a mutual friend group
• Make crazy and messed up jokes
• More relaxed with them
To be honest, I'm not the best friend you can have because I treat people very similarly. :P Unless I consider you someone I can actually trust, then I might be more open. Other than that, I treat people the same, except the difference is my comfort and openness.
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