Stuck in the middle
Shikoru @shikoru
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Stuck in the middle
Shikoru @shikoru
I recently moved in with a friend and his girlfriend, and at first things were good. A little while in they said that they would like to "exparament" with me, at first I was alright with it but then I fell in love with his girlfriend. About a week later I found out that she loved me too. She said that she had been thinking about leaving him because he was abusive but could never bring her self to it. About a week ago they had a huge fight and she ended it, or so she said. They wanted to try and see if there was anything still there but she said that there was something missing when they spent time together anymore.
She says that she wants to date me but she still keeps trying to make things work with him. She wants to let him live in the house as a roommate but dosent want me to move out for fear of loosing me. I don't really want to live in the same house as him anymore because him and his entire family have turned on both me and the girl. But I still love her so I am torn...
I don't want to see her with him but I don't want to loose her either.
This is being sent from my phone so please forgive me for any mistakes.
I guess I kinda just wanted a place to get it all out of just possibly see if anyone has had any simuliar situations.
Kyetge! @kyetge
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Kyetge! @kyetge
Get the hell out from the family drama. Move out and if she really does want to pursue anything with you, then she'll follow YOU.
Try to be professional about this, please.
I've seen a lot of these situations unfold thanks to facebook. Family's always biased. The girl sounds unreliable, indecisive, and not professional at all.
Remove yourself from this situation! D:
Pretty_Yuuki @pretty_yuuki
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Pretty_Yuuki @pretty_yuuki
I have been in a mentally abusive relationship and ill tell you what - you really dont know why BUT YOU KEEP GOING BACK - i promise you she will not stop trying to make it work with him - i know it sounds crazy but they have a hold on you that you cant escape.
I really feel for you in this situation but my best advice is to get out of there, things will work out if they are ment too.
Much hope
xxx
Phoenix @animecountryboy
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Phoenix @animecountryboy
i agree with Kyetge! it is tough advice to give but it needed to be said
EndlessKnight @ryuseven_0
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EndlessKnight @ryuseven_0
I agree with everyone; in my opinion your story sounds like a recipe for a tragedy. Don't tangle your self in that anymore could turn dangerous.
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