Save sex for marriage?

Sure if you want to, it's a personal choice. It's not so much whether saving sex for marriage is a pipe dream, it's more is marriage that last the rest of your life a pipe dream? It's not, but getting rarer. Finding a relationship is hard enough, finding one that lasts is very hard. For me, I prefer to not have sex unless I have feelings for someone. But I don't want to give up sex so long until marriage. I'm 42 and still haven't found someone who loves me enough to want a permenant relationship. Though I also haven't been in a relationship for a long time, so I haven't had sex in 8yrs.

Viable? I guess if it's what you want you can. But in general you need to go throught years of relationship before it, and it can be hard for a couple to live without sex for years i guess. A good question would be why do you want to wait for marriage. If it is for faithful reason i can't reall help you, but if it is something like preserving yourself for the "good one", you may not need to wait for the marriage but more to find someone you're willing to live with the rest of your life.

If she's saving it for marriage then she's not for me. I will respectfully leave women alone who want to save sex for marriage

Sex is, form me, an important part of a relationship. I like it. I want it. I want someone who is willing to try stuff out. But, that is just me. If people wanna wait, great!

For me to marry someone I would need a couple years with them, so to not have sex in that time wouldn't work. You have to be compatible in that way too just as in any other. I mean if you marry someone and find out they can't satisfy you, no matter what you tell yourself it won't end well. One of you will end up resenting the other.

It's a choice I made since I was young and I've stuck with it. If I end up alone because so many people prioritize sex, then I'm cool with that. I'm not interested in it.

I would say depends on each other's circumstances. I think it is fine if they choose to do it before or after marriage. In my circumstance, I'm in University. So I'm not taking the risk of having to take care a child while trying to graduate. I would like to have a stable income to assure the child's lifestyle.