Maybe our parents shouldnt have had kids?

@muffin probably me. I'm more answering the thread title then going with what everyone is saying. If your brain is changed then use it for the better. Humans are ment to create.

My mother thinks I am fed well, given me birth at age 32, and still blaming on vaccines causing even my Asperger's syndrome. She had typical Thanksgiving dinner when I was growing in her. That could be where my autistic traits started. My father was harsh enough to divorce with my mother. My big sister has road rage and usually sounds as annoying as a chainsaw or lawnmower. I was easy to be picked on by my big brother usually. Making my own decisions may lead to parents and family disliking them. Not sure if my parents should have had children or not. If I wasn't here, there wouldn't be a person like me who loves hunting for lost and found gems in otaku culture.

Idk this is a sensitive topic for me. My mom really is the most amazing mom due to her troubled upbringings. However my father was the one who should not habe had kids. He is manipulative and was never there to teach my brother, sister, and I things we needed to know that a father would teach their children. I never learned how to drive. I tried and it honestly scared me from it. I never really learned how to properly talk to women. I stutter and my mind goes blank to conversation pieces. There are a million things that I can talk about when it cokes to my so called sperm donor. Even now he plans tp sell my recently dead grandfathers land, trailer, and belongings. Because that is the kidn of person he is. Sneaky and backstabbing when it comes to money. It is always about money for him. When I gave up working on ships he threw it in my face telling me how I will never achieve anything close to that in my life time ever again. Plus how I can never male that kind of money again. I remember looking at this super car in this car lot we visited a few months ago and his bitch of a fiance whom he will never actually marry due to the fact their social securities will be compromised told me, "Welp you could have afforded it if you stayed in the merchant marines". I blew up at them and demanded they never mentioned it again. All he cares about is money. Not me. He treats humans like shit. Even now he has my old room mate John his fiance's son holed up in a room and is never allowed to go anywhere on his own. God forbid he got friends and got to leave the trailer. That would mean one less free worker for my so called father. John is handicapped mentally. So he just lets it happen to him.

So yeah thats scratching the surface on alot of my family's problems. I didn't even mention the fact how half of my mom's family are drug addicts who sleep with eachother in trade for crack and a good high.