Empicca's Territory

So I'm not alone haha! Well I know I had a classmate top me when she said her father was 70 when she was born. So I guess my dad wasn't that ancient, heh!

https://media.tenor.com/z-tjiE68w40AAAAC/kiniromozaic-kinmozaic.gif 619PM ( r a n d o m ) ~ my cousin, who is very pretty, smart, with a stable job and from a very respected fam just got cheated on by her husband with another woman who does not have a regular job and who has three kids from different men. sometimes I wonder if the concept of marriage is still worth it these days. I know it's different for everyone, but dem most relationships are like that these days. No offense, but, in my experience and stories from people I know and am close with, it's usually men who cheat or with major probs. And another funny thing is how men would still f deny stuff even when there are tons of evidence. Hahaha. My cousin is still hurt asf but yea life must go on, she is spending time with her fam, trynna arrange the legal papers for the liquidation of properties etc. etc. and she's also working on her promotion. Guess relationship w career/money is besto one. Hahaha. I feel bad for her and the fam. Also gives me another reason to stay away from any relationship. Hahaha. But if I ever get into a new relationship I hope the universe gives me a good guy. Huehue.

That's terrible about what happened with your cousin. Glad she has a foundation she can pivot from to remove herself from that horrible situation. As for men typically being the cheaters in the relationship, remember that it takes 2 to tango. Unless the men are hooking up with other men then statistics would suggest an equal number of men and women cheat. I hope for the best for your cousin and yourself.

@gabriel_true well yea, thats why I said based on my experience and from people I know or close with only. Cause I know both men and women can do it, and both might be the prob. It could be that both the husband and wife has problems, but as someone who treats marriage as somethin sacred, for me cheating is not the answer. Like, okay, both of you have probs, work it out then, talk it out, compromise, make things work. If youre unhappy with the marriage then leave in a civil/legal way. I see cheating as something done by people with psychological probs or with issues. If thats the case, go therapy before getting married. lol. Just my opinion tho hahahuehue. I feel really sensitive with this topic as someone who got cheated on. To think that it was just a teen relationship, imagine how it would f hurt like hell considering its already your husband or wife. Huehue. Just wish healing for everyone. Huehue.