Out of curiosity why should i as a gamer & as a otaku get a girlfriend/or get marry

Snakey you actually had something going there in your other comment that even took yours truly back. Lol at that last part though good luck with that Womanlogic - take it from me don't try to figure out Womanlogic it can't be done. About the whole attention thing though - women like a specific type of attention no matter what and all other attention is subject to all sorts of conditions and circumstances. Women like the attention and affection to be one way - to them, if this is the case it don't matter much if you're sending them 5 texts a day or 500. I've never had a woman say to me "hey Napalm you're giving me too much attention and affection" or "could you tone down your efforts to make me feel special" etc etc. They will literally take that every day of the week and twice on Sunday. Where all of this "I need space" and other things come into play is if you want some of that back - the return of such is subject to many conditions. While I've never heard what I said above I have heard the whole "I need space" or "you're overbearing" thing but it is only ever brought up when I want something from her - never when she's getting from me. Then things like what snakey said before if you're getting at them often for something other than giving them affection and whatever else it becomes a problem. Then they start to think things like "is this all he has to do all day" and shit like that. It never consciously crossed my mind that they could really see things that way so it was a little bit of a wake up call. (Before I get the whole "not all women are like that" thing - truth be told I haven't met (certainly in a remotely romantic kind of way)one that isn't this way))

To get back to the OP: You just gotta find a woman who either is okay with your otaku/gaming life or is into it herself. I mean there's one obvious reason why you'd want a gf/wife - that whole physical thing. I mean if I were able to play a game and earn enough in game currency for some sex best believe that would be the hottest game of all time hands down. If it is something that is that important to you and something you enjoy it should be something at minimum shes okay with and that only a healthy infringement would be okay.