How many on here has actually found a real date on this site?

It's possible, but your chances of finding someone local are pretty low unless you live in a relatively populace area or state. Some have definitely done the LDR thing to start and eventually moved to be with each other.

I don't think this site is good for dating at all honestly I did get my first gf on here but she lived 10 hours away and was just emotionally unstable and crazy

I met someone and we have been talking for a week. Everything started out great and he is a cutie pie, but we havent met yet. We are supposed to meet tmrw but i dont know now. He was texting me nonstop like first few days and has called me a few times. But over the last few days, he has less and less. Im guessing its work but i dont know. Im really heartbroken over it cause i dont know what to do. How did things get so distant in a matter of a week? I have figured that if he wants to, he will. If not, oh well. His loss.